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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
| rainydaykid |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2014, 12:12 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 20,189
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| I'm really good looking, intelligent, and funny You sound like such a supreme gentleman; why aren't women falling all over you? What's wrong with them? Because I don't care that much about money, and have never been materialistic? I don't fit the cookie cutter mold of the "standard American male", ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: sexual harassment by so called "friend" |
| rainydaykid |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 11
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| He asked a question and you told him no. Albeit what he asked was really strange and I am not surprised that anyone would be turned off by that. Anyway, the point is you told him no and that you were uncomfortable with him. If he doesn't respect your answer, then it does become sexual harassment. H... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
| rainydaykid |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 10:07 pm
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| @Boo: Let him. I have a google+ account. I'm not hiding from anybody. I'm just not going to do the work for anybody. Unless I already know you fairly well, I confirm/deny NOTHING. I've even dropped clues as to my whereabouts all over WP. Here's a hint: I live in one of the most racially tense and m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
| rainydaykid |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 4:50 pm
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| @Boo: Let him. I have a google+ account. I'm not hiding from anybody. I'm just not going to do the work for anybody. Unless I already know you fairly well, I confirm/deny NOTHING. I've even dropped clues as to my whereabouts all over WP. Here's a hint: I live in one of the most racially tense and m... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Drinkin' the Kool-Aide |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 4:40 pm
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| Well, wouldn't advise it for everyone, but I'm a combat veteran with extensive training with private companies as well. I've been around firearms my whole life, and practice constantly. Also, dogs are good, as well as any other security measure. With all my firearms training, it is a burden, and I a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:52 pm
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| I had to google her address, come over to her house, and ask what was up. I said I was fine if she was no longer interested, just tell me, it's not a problem. ^That's one of the creepiest damn things I've ever heard. For future reference, that's a fantastic way to get yourself a restraining order. ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Drinkin' the Kool-Aide |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:46 pm
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| Just be careful in the overnight shift--not because you're a woman--but because there are drunks out there who don't give a rat's butt who you are (even in Canada). I would counsel men to be careful as well. I worked overnight at a gas station, and had a carry permit. I carried a concealed Glock 19... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Suffer for money and vocational success? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Your health is more important than anything else. I have severe mental problems from being a combat medic in Iraq, and am just recently making progress on my disability claims with the VA, after 10 years. The only time I was at peace was when I did the Appalachian Trail. Being in the woods is calmin... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Do I have the right? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:36 pm
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Replies: 7
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Stargazer43 wrote: Emotions are one of the few things in this world that you do have a right to 
Along with healthcare, food, and clean water.
Yes on the emotional thing. I've cried before, and didn't care who saw it. I don't buy into this whole macho bs about how a man is supposed to be. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:30 pm
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| She told me she wasn't interested any more, and I was ok with that. Found out later she was dating some ugly bald dude, to each his own. We are both redheads though, she said it felt like it would be incest, I was like, you saw my pic before we started dating. So whatever. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 1:15 pm
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Replies: 205
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| I don't think it's an entitlement. Providing closure is something good to do but it bears potential costs. I'm assuming we're talking about being rejected by women in the beginning stages of relationship (i.e. not a long-term committed relationship). Consider that, at this stage, there isn't a subs... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Once a cheater always a cheater?? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 8:14 am
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| He recently just told me that he has been logging on to dating sites to "keep his option open" and "have a back up plan". Your boyfriend said that? What the hell are you still with him for? What an obtuse individual, get rid of him asap. Edit: Saw you dumped his arse. Good girl. Might not be obtuse... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 7:38 am
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| You aren't entitled to closure. Not from from folks you know well and DEFINITELY not from someone you barely know (eg have dated casually, not exclusively). The folks who "ghost" you? Are entitled to do so. I find it creepy as ALL get out when a guy I've gone out with a few times (eg 5-6 dates, no ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Penis too Big? |
| rainydaykid |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 6:31 am
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Replies: 47
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| suppose you've lucked out with the right women then. i'm a bit above average in both but that depends on what data you use. either way I am too small compared to a bunch of guys it seems. and to what a bunch of women want. but if i just never have sex they'll never know i guess and theres a bit of ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: pretentious classical music snobs vs. musician with AS |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 6:15 am
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| Yeah, I've never learned to read, write, or play music. I guess we aren't using the same definition of complex. My area of expertise lies more in analytical things like chemistry, physics, and calculus. I do enjoy listening to a wide variety of music, though. I didn't mean to imply that the artists ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Penis too Big? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 6:13 am
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Replies: 47
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| Well, I did post a nice pic of my hard cock with a magnum XL on it, but it got deleted, so whatever. |
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