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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What should I do? |
| Johannes88 |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2015, 3:20 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,207
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| I would say the best method is no "method." Or maybe somewhere between the "opossum" and the "skunk" method. This is what I advocate in men--and I advocate this for women, too. Just continue to talk about what you've been talking about before. Spend quality time with e... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this an aspergers moment or are people just stupid? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2015, 1:05 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,827
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| I would have to know the whole scenario like the whole conversation you guys were having for me to to take a wild guess. This is just too vague for me to tell or to even understand it. lol, I could pm you it actually. Maybe I should start wearing a wire too! Well, I'm reflecting on this a little mo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If I tell my crush that he I think he is cute? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,587
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| I've never found the whole ultimatum approach the best one to go by. I find the key to relationship success is expressing interest while always maintaining "plausable deniability". |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What should I do? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 6:11 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,207
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| Wouldn't the better approach be some kind of passive method? Really stand out, dress yourself up to be eye catching, wear bright colors, makeup, and clicky highheels, or whatever goes along with your basic personality because you don't want to be fake, just a louder you. Then you've gotta just use t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guy I've rarely met flirting with me too strong |
| Johannes88 |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 777
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| What? No, don't listen to these people. Listen to a guy who's had his romantic advances turned down by hundreds of women :) -Pick up on some little thing that sort of not really offends you and make a big deal out of it. Then when he tries to defend himself or clarify , and then say you don't date g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this an aspergers moment or are people just stupid? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 2:05 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,827
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| Typical neurotypical ... playing games with language. Who knows what the right response was, but if that's going to set her off, chalk it up to luck that you found out quickly.. Ha yes, Ok, to be fair i was intending a little bit of insuation there what with the hypothetical say you slept over at m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this an aspergers moment or are people just stupid? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 1:50 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,827
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| Uhhh, ok, clarification. I wasn't really going for hookup here, I am not really that type of guy, when she says "how would this work" I'm thinking well she's talking about how would we spend time together with our busy schedules and the long distance between us. That's kind of the shame of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this an aspergers moment or are people just stupid? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2015, 1:26 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,827
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| so I was talking to this girl online and she lived like 40 minutes away so she asks, how would this "work" exactly, so I said well, if you were to stay at my place then you could just go back to work the next day and it'd be against traffic so no problem, your work is only 30 mins away, an... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Meeting Hell -- Any Office Workers With Thoughts? |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,666
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| I feel like the chamomile can do the trick, I mean, it doesn't work miracles but I do that to loosen up during a 1on 1 |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How exactly do NT's make friends? |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 3:31 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,801
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| Most obvious difference between NT's and aspies from a social perspective is that NT's seem to play "the game" to get to know other people better, whereas aspies get caught up in the actual "game". There's pretty much always a game, whether it's explicit or implicit, if you're at... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Does America have a culture? |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2015, 5:10 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 1,893
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| Now before everyone says, "yeah, of course" I request you ponder this: -Ever seen anyone in Europe at a concert proudly waving their American flag to "represent" -What's a dish that we didn't borrow from some other country? -People wore clogs in denmark, kimonos in Japan, Sari's ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2015, 11:21 am
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Replies: 147
Views: 13,332
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| Dating sites are just sites where people can be grandiose versions of themselves. This grandiose version is usually shrouded in facade, yet at the same time their personality could be more so open then in reality. I guess I can't relate to the whole human chemistry thing, because it pleasures me mo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has anyone else been told they are too blunt? |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2015, 12:20 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 4,531
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| Yes, I am blunt. I have heard, "Tell us how you really feel" more times than I can count. These kinds of common phrases are very revealing of the mind-set and expectation of deception. I've often heard other phrases like this, for example: "I'll be honest with you." and "I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating sites and formality....ranting a little |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2015, 12:16 am
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Replies: 1
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| The women I datw who are my age and in my kind of personality category seem to be all about me just sending a polite formal message like, hey, I think you're beautfil. Would you like to meet up. But i kind of hate that, I can do it but I feel like I'm being interviewed for a job. Is that all dating ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: This is Torturing Me - Asexuality and ASD |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2015, 11:50 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,660
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| I can see waiting until marriage but no sex? Ever? Ummmmm, I'm actually quite obsessed with sex. Wish I knew what your secret is. Even when I'm thinking meh, women don't do it for me I'm secretly hoping in the back of my mind this will make me more attractive. Lol But if you don't want sex I mean, l... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has anyone else been told they are too blunt? |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2015, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 4,531
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Big Labowsky anyone? |
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