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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Whining In Songs |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2007, 1:59 pm
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| I need an expert on this, as this question's been been bugging me. What kind of lyrics and singing would class you as a "whiner" and "teen" and "Emo style"? I'm just curious, that's all. Don't understand? I give you some examples: Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit (Eat You Alive) etc. Note, I'm not trying t... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Things you've "collected" over the years |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2007, 12:52 pm
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| A huge section of whale skull I found on the beach. It had to weigh at least 50 pounds and I was about 11 years old at the time. I still have it, though it has shriveled since then. I could list lots of other curious things, all of which found on the beach and all of which I still have. Hey Arbie, ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Things you've "collected" over the years |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2007, 12:48 pm
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| I didn't even begin to all the heart shaped rocks, things that looked like faces, and if I ever find something on the ground that I don't know what it is, then I will take it home, or pick it up until I can figure it out. It's usually a little spring or component or something or nuther. I have hood... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Question? Dilema? Contradiction? |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2007, 9:05 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,955
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agentcyclosarin wrote: Best friend I have ever had in my life died when I was eight - nine, she was in her sixties - seventies.
I am sorry for your loss...and I'm sure it was a huge loss. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Question? Dilema? Contradiction? |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2007, 11:09 pm
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| This led to me becoming dependant on hugs and when I was not getting enough, I would get very upset. Now I am trying to get the balance but its not easy. I do love hugs (now) but at the end of the day I would prefer to be without them - Life seemed easier before hugging. My family was not a huggy f... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: So I'm back... schedule distruption |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2007, 3:50 pm
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| Did anyone else get this in the past? "I know you're smart so why can't you just f***ing clue in?" Yes, but not put to me quite in that way. Every report card stated that I wasn't living up to my potential. I did very well in school, (until I fell apart at college which is another story), but I was... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Nostalgia |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2007, 3:33 pm
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Replies: 15
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| When I was a child I looked at adults and hated what they stood for. I vowed, very strongly, that I would never become an adult. To this day, even though I look like an adult and can operate in the adult world, I have never lost the child within me. Great discussion. As a child, I used to wonder ho... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: taboo topics |
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Posted: 21 May 2007, 7:34 am
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Replies: 56
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Annoying CoWorkers (and how do we put them in their place?) |
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Posted: 18 May 2007, 1:52 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Since you are highly regarded by your bosses, I'd inform them and see if they have any suggestions. I would not go to HR. HR is really support for Administration. They will just contact your bosses, anyway, so you might as well go straight to them yourself. I was in a situation where a co-worker wou... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Surrounded by idiots and a-holes at work |
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Posted: 17 May 2007, 11:19 am
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Replies: 13
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| I do feel like I want to get out of there, but I've been through this with so many jobs, and it is just so disappointing because I was really hoping it would be different this time. I'm going to try to stick with it a while longer I think, and focus on the work more, and less on the people. I think... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Undiagnosed Aspies, autistics and borderline characters |
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Posted: 16 May 2007, 3:00 pm
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Replies: 49
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| And then one day after looking at it for months of nothing happening, it opened....Lol, that's called baiting now she's got to catch me. Wanna come play you ol troll? :wink: She also knows I'm not lying. Oh what a nasty troll I am. Ok enough baiting. She didn't take it, but you got me, dammit. I've... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What can we do to prevent rejection? |
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Posted: 11 May 2007, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 39
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| I agree with madscientist, above. I will add that if you've done all you can to make things right, and she never comes around, you must learn to let go. As Graelwyn said, you can't control someone else's behavior, only how you respond to that behavior. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: No soul? |
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Posted: 11 May 2007, 2:58 pm
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| This is my problem though. I cannot be more assertive and open with my feelings because it´s impossible for me to believe that someone else could have feelings for me. Its impossible for me to believe that someone will not be repulsed by my touch, so I dare not touch. I know that this is a problem ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Undiagnosed Aspies, autistics and borderline characters |
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Posted: 11 May 2007, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 49
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| it is so easy to get lost while hunting and not hear an approaching person. Exactly. I wish we lived in the same state...I would rock hound with you.Have you tried to find a local "group"?My shyness keeps me from this but I know not all aspies are as people shy as me. Me too. I have located groups ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Black and white thinking and other examples of Asperger's |
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Posted: 11 May 2007, 1:35 pm
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Replies: 74
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| Does anyone else here find that they really have to work hard to put themselves into others' shoes, especially in heated moments? Is this something everyone has issues with or is it an Aspie thing? I just cannot imagine being able to instantly see from someone else's point of view and understand it... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Undiagnosed Aspies, autistics and borderline characters |
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Posted: 11 May 2007, 1:09 pm
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Replies: 49
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| Ticker, yes I agree...I think we can narrow it down to at least those 2 things: we have more in common with men, and women are too competitive. That is a wall I hit first with women. Funny you mentioned rockhounding, because just a couple of weeks ago I was trying to find someone to go to a site wit... |
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