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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What unusual things are attractive to you in a partner? |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2016, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 147
Views: 8,757
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| A girl with a slight but noticeable limp always catches my eye. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Eye contact pisses me off. |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2015, 4:53 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 904
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| Thank you for your responses. Sunglasses do help since I can not see their eyes. I can tolerate my girlfriend making eye contact most of the time, but I can't tolerate my mother or brother, people I've known longer and trust more. I know a lot of people find it uncomfortable, but I don't think it's ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Eye contact pisses me off. |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2015, 2:43 pm
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Replies: 9
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| I don't have any problems making eye contact, but sometimes it infuriates me like nothing else. If someone makes eye contact with me and doesn't say anything, I don't know what it means. Outside of a conversation it feels threatening, like I'm being singled out and attacked. I yell at my siblings fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you date a woman who is 6 ft 4? |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2015, 12:50 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,786
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| Being 5'8" makes it easy to find girls taller than myself, and I apparently seek them out. I think 6'4" would be HOT! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Did girls always want to date you? |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2015, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,076
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| Not at first, but I quickly became intimidatingly desirable. Once I started wearing big boy clothes (basically anything that isn't a tee shirt and sweatpants or dudebro attire, and pay attention to the fit) and styling my hair the big boy way (Not spiked, guys. Go with a solid classic, same as cloth... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reading intentions? I need help. :/ |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2015, 10:09 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 800
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| I would like multiple opinions, though. Feel free to contribute, Wrong Planet. :] |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reading intentions? I need help. :/ |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2015, 9:17 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 800
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That was what I was thinking, but I wasn't sure if I was reading too much into her touching my arm. It's just that NOBODY gets to touch me, so they'd have to be trying to tell me something or exceptionally obtuse to do that.
I'll post updates on my success if I get anywhere. :] |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reading intentions? I need help. :/ |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2015, 9:10 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 800
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| She's cute, and I like how she talks to me. She seems affectionate. I enjoyed when she was bold and somewhat forward with me previously. However, I don't think my friends would like her at all, and I'm certain I could do better physically (if not personality-wise as well) as I am attractive enough t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reading intentions? I need help. :/ |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2015, 8:55 pm
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Replies: 8
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| This girl and I haven't interacted much in the past few months, but today we ran into each other and she reached out and was rubbing my arm (I think that's a comforting motion or something?) and standing in my personal space while we were talking. I'm not sure why she was invading my space, and that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How does she see me? |
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Posted: 01 Apr 2015, 10:09 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,061
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| Pursue both girls to double your chances of succeeding with either of them. If one finds out about the other it might result in competition between them, which is ALWAYS good for you. Don't worry about getting attached to both of them, you are already biased toward one of them. Right now it's about ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Embarrassing question! |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 12:40 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,668
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| Yes. Cuddling makes the majority of humans happy, regardless of gender. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't like being touched? |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 2:23 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,793
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| Also, I don't make friends with guys because they are too physical. One time in school, two male acquaintances were repeatedly poking my leg with their feet. They wouldn't stop when I told them to, so I stood up, flipped one guy's desk with him in it, and kicked the other one directly in his testicl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't like being touched? |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I tried telling one girl before, and it kind of worked, but she forgot after awhile and went back to touching me without warning. I don't understand how suddenly grabbing people could be anything but threatening. I still have this probl... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: who here collects things, what do you collect |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 1:51 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,130
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| I collect information. I read textbooks in class rather than listening to the teacher or doing the work. It gets me better grades. :P I physically collect bouncy balls of different sizes and colors, knives, bottlecaps, and mostly books. I have about thousands of dollars worth of books in boxes under... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't like being touched? |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 1:40 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,793
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| Hello, I'm Nick. I'm high-functioning and apparently attractive, but physical contact makes me very uncomfortable. I recoil at being touched, and somehow this really offends girls. All I need is some warning before they try to hug me or grab my hand. :/ It makes relationships difficult and my past g... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do female aspies prefer male friends? |
| Nichard |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2014, 10:45 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 7,783
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| I get along with girls much better than I do with guys. Physical contact makes me really uncomfortable, and guys are always pushing, hitting, and touching eachother. I'm also nonviolent, so I don't like being around all that. Girls like me, they're nice, easy to talk to, and my "just friends&qu... |
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