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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: do you find it actually harder to make friends with aspies |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2015, 7:59 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,937
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| I've made 3 friends with aspergers, and managed to somehow royally f*** it up and lose them all. Well two just haven't talked to me in a long time, but it's not optimistic :/ It seems keeping friends in general is my problem, making them is a whole lot easier for me than keeping them around for me. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is Asperger's unattractive? |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2015, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 301
Views: 16,211
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| Well, I actually have a strange perspective on it, considering my last two major friends, the latter of which I ended up developing a major crush on, had aspergers, and I didn't find them unattractive in any sense, if anything they were really cute, (especially the one I had a crush on, obviously). ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I can socialize but I hate it... |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2015, 7:25 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 926
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| Sadly that pretty much seems to be the case on dating sites. A lot of dudes see sex as the main ends to the means of dating, hence why they just seem to go after any girl they find attractive desperately and pretty much ignoring anything you might have written on your profile. It's really disappoint... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2015, 1:12 am
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Replies: 2,709
Views: 467,142
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| Missing a ton of people. -Missing my estranged friend who moved to Idaho and has stopped contacting me, -my estranged friend who's account I still look at on tumblr -my friend in Michigan who seems to have been rather busy the last week -my friend in Washington who has a bad back and who's phone is ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2015, 6:31 pm
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Replies: 4,989
Views: 570,909
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| Dear everyone that abandoned me, F*** you. I want you all back, but still f*** you at the same time. sometimes I fantasize I could just drag you all back kicking and screaming by the collar of your shirts. Dear Zac, You are an ugly, disgusting, heartless, sociopathic, narcissistic megalomaniac and I... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I am so tired of feeling alone around people |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2015, 6:14 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 577
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| I'm just sick of it. I'm tired of not being able to relate to people, for everyone being busy with school and work, with friendships and communities breaking up. It seems college is really the only place I have a speck of any feeling of social connection, where people seem interesting and have some ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Map for all Earthbound members of WrongPlanet |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2015, 4:10 pm
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Replies: 464
Views: 186,463
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Make a Movie/TV reference |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 2:18 am
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Replies: 2,566
Views: 163,177
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| The things you own, end up owning you. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: what ideology have killed most people? |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 1:53 am
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Replies: 94
Views: 4,935
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| Statism. People will go crazy and kill each-other, so we need a government to rule over them, made up of a few people, with an army of obedient people who will do anything they say, and kill whoever they say. Genocides (Hitler's "Aryan Master Race" Plan, the killing of over 90% of the Nati... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Hatred |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 1:41 am
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Replies: 110
Views: 6,564
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| Meh, it's a tryhard edgy game, but I don't get why people are flipping over it. Anyone with a brain has known for ages videogames don't cause violence, but people who don't like this sort of thing and feel the world should change for them are gonna complain as hard as they can to get their way (usua... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Feeling like I relate to different age ranges |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 1:30 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 560
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| Yeah, my therapist has said she thinks I might find some kindred spirits in an aspergers group, with me having some of the symptoms in PDD-NOS, but I feel, I dunno, nervous about it. I feel like it's a combination of the stigmas that are there unconsciously, and that it feels a bit, awkward? I mean,... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Feeling like I relate to different age ranges |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2015, 12:25 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 560
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| I'm 21 years old, and well, I kinda sometimes feel younger than myself, and crave to experience a more youthful experience. I dunno if it's my PDD-NOS, or that I didn't have a lot of childhood experiences after I turned 11, but I feel like I missed a time in my life where I could have found myself m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Looking for insight on long silent friend |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 12:08 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 348
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| Hey SeeingEyeButterfly. This is a tough one...and I'm a bit confused. You mentioned earlier that you hurt her. How so? You said that you sent her a text explaining how you felt. What do you mean by that? I don't know what she's thinking, so let me venture some guesses: 1) Maybe she knows that you w... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Looking for insight on long silent friend |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2015, 3:58 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 348
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| I've probably mentioned this before, but I've had a friend with aspergers who hasn't contacted me in two months, and I miss her like crazy, but I'm scared of contacting her again in that I feel it may be overwhelming or at this point would only make things worse. I met her a year ago at college, whe... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friendship Board - Age 19 Onwards |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2015, 1:14 am
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Replies: 1,199
Views: 833,430
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| I'm Will, I'm 21 and from California. I have mild PDD-NOS, I can be a little awkward in breaking the ice, but after a little bit, if we mingle well, I can be really good at initiating the conversation (Though if I'm overwhelming at any point or anything just tell me to cool it and I'll stop, I can t... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Parents don't believe me |
| SeeingEyeButterfly |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2015, 10:45 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,348
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| I had a friend who was diagnosed at 17, and even without a diagnosis, if the shoe fits, it fits, eh? You're here and you're accepted, when you're 18 you can talk to a psychiatrist if you feel a medical diagnosis would really get you some closure, and even if by some tiny microscopic chance you were ... |
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