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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
| Hebe |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2015, 7:12 am
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| Well I don't know what the issue is with this guy he blocked me on Facebook. This is the second time he has done this I'm surprised he would block me because he liked the comments I left on a post he made yesterday. It's weird I don't get him I sent him a text asking him if there was a reason why he... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2015, 4:07 pm
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| I doubt if he'd want me to be his girlfriend when he told me that he and I weren't compatible as friends I still don't get that. Best to be cautious, then. I mean, you don't have to be neurotypical to see where unrequited romantic interest can go wrong! When girl wants a friend and boy wants a girlf... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2015, 5:40 pm
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| Yes I can understand why he wouldn't want to meet me I'll just leave that alone. If he eventually does then it's fine I won't pressure him about it or ask him any questions. I'll just be there for him if he needs me I was upset with him a few days ago. I'm trying to be more patient and understanding... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2015, 8:43 am
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I'll always be there for him if he needs me but I won't accept him being rude to me.
kraftiekortie wrote: That's swell!
I hope so, too.
Just help him grow as a person by not tolerating it when he treats you lousy. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2015, 10:10 pm
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| I really do care about him a lot and I wish we could at least be friends. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2015, 8:40 am
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| Yeah sometimes you do have to walk away I guess after you've tried. I'll keep him as a friend on Facebook I just won't talk to him or give him my attention. I think that's all he really likes anyway is attention which is why he has said several times he would commit suicide and act out in other ways... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2015, 7:17 am
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| Well that's common sense I think we all know that being friends takes both people who respect each other. I do agree with some of the things LyraLuthTinu said. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 9:35 pm
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| No? Everyone here seems to be negative. I believe everyone deserves to be loved and accepted for who they are isn't that how life is suppose to be? No. Even if it was, why is it your job to love and accept him? I mean sometimes you have to accept a person for who they are The other option is to walk... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 8:30 pm
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| I know exactly what you meant when you said "healing" |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 8:08 pm
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| I don't think it's possible to actually "heal" someone I mean sometimes you have to accept a person for who they are. So what's wrong with wanting to heal someone? I happen to believe the desire to heal someone when they are hurt is a primal human instinct. Studies have shown that even peo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:56 pm
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| Yes I understand this is why I told him I was done with him. I won't be answering anymore of his calls either. You don't have to be in a romantic relationship to display codependent characteristics. I do hope you work it all out. He doesn't seem very nice to you, and I don't know why you would want ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:51 pm
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I'm not trying to heal anyone trust me.
kraftiekortie wrote: Are you really a youthful person?
I'm pretty youthful for age 54.
Anyway...I hope you could get it straightened out with this guy. I sense that you want to "heal" him in some way. Nothing wrong with that. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:45 pm
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| Seems like you're trying to make it out as I have issues just because I wanted to be friends with a guy who has a mental disorder. I don't see how that's accurate I even explained my reasoning. A lot of people treat those with mental illness badly and I know this for a fact they neglect them. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:36 pm
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| We all have our issues that's a part of life yes I do like helping others. I was raised to be nice to all people even those who may have mental illness. I don't feel like I'm codependent and this guy and I aren't even in a relationship. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:26 pm
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| I believe everyone deserves to be loved and accepted for who they are isn't that how life is suppose to be? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2015, 7:20 pm
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| I DO genuinely like him I never said I didn't otherwise I wouldn't be going through all this if I didn't. I mean honestly where have I stated I don't actually like him? The fact that I am even posting here should be proof enough that I don't have any bad intentions. I'm not the type of person who wo... |
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