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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My wife is asexual |
| Gauldoth |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2015, 11:41 am
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Replies: 94
Views: 5,023
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| It's just a shame to have to live with that. At least, putting myself in your shoes I'd seriously contemplate suicide. Totally honest. It is interesting how sex has a depreciated value in our relationships. If your spouse needs conversation, comforting, food, even at-home counseling, you're a negle... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A tip for women who want to know who are their admirers. |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2015, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 151
Views: 5,443
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Spiderpig wrote: Why does everybody seem to agree wanting sex makes you a jerk?
It's not wanting sex that makes us a social pariah, it's the fact want it but can't get it, at least not through socially acceptable means, i.e. not being able to """game""" women into giving it to us. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A tip for women who want to know who are their admirers. |
| Gauldoth |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2015, 1:09 pm
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Replies: 151
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| guys are fodder to most women, so... like... why bother? This is so untrue, don't generalize. It only applies to guys like us. And there's probably just as many women sitting back, waiting for a guy to initiate things. Ah, yes, in other words... what about teh womynz???!!1! Get real, women don't ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My wife is asexual |
| Gauldoth |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2015, 1:00 pm
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Replies: 94
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| This is total myth. While this is true for some, women have just as strong a sex drive quite often. No, it's not, and no, you don't. I've heard of lying to people to make them feel better, but you're lying to make yourself feel better. Look, OP, I believe you when you say your wife asexual (hell, f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like shy men? |
| Gauldoth |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2015, 12:05 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 4,323
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| Anyway, an interesting question that's come to my head is how much has history valued shy men in general, and are they any parts of history where they were considered the most attractive? I'm hoping there are. :D well, Saladin is one. pretty much any of the major scientists in history.... Saladin w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How important is sex to you? |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2015, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 3,036
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| Saying there's more life than sex is a bit like saying there's more to a house than just its foundations, at least as far as men are concerned. With women it's not like that, I know. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My experiences with events for singles so far |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 7:33 pm
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Replies: 5
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| Dating seems like a game of selling yourself. Not everyone is a salesperson at heart. Dating is a game of selling yourself, at least if for guys. And if you actually wanna "make the sale", you better either be one hell of a good salesman or have a top-quality product, otherwise you're not... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it weird that I have an imaginary wife and daughter? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,705
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| I often pretend in my jmagination to have a wife and a daughter, I'm 16 and a guy. I have really elaborate conversations that feel almost real, but deep down I know they're not real. Sometimes when someone interrupts my imaginary conversation I tell them to hold on cause I'm " busy thinking&qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Top 10 Reasons You Can't Get A Girlfriend |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2015, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 120
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| Top 10 reasons why you can't get a girlfriend: 1. You're an aspie. 2. You're an aspie. 3. You're an aspie. 4. You're an aspie. 5. You're an aspie. 6. You're an aspie. 7. You're an aspie. 8. You're an aspie. 9. You're an aspie. 10. You're an aspie. You have a giant chip on your shoulder, a gross sen... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A question for the guys! |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2015, 1:17 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 3,141
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| You can either answer hypothetically, or based on your ltr/'s. Are you happy for your relationship to not be an entirely equal partnership? Would you be happy to support a partner who doesn't/can't work? Would you be happy to have more responsibilities than your partner? The reason I ask is because... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Spawning offspring - a question for Aspie ladies |
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Posted: 14 Sep 2015, 6:46 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,640
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| I am a proud Autistic "spawner" of children, grand children and one great-grandchild. My kids were all born many years before I was aware that I am Autistic. Had I been aware, I still would have had children, but I would have become an Autistic activist about 40 years earlier. Do you have... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like shy men? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 3:26 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 4,323
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| Intelligence and strength aren't mutually exclusive, confidence is situational for anyone... I think general survival skill is more important than confidence, in order to stay alive so I can date anybody in the first place. I agree but that's not most women, it's the confidence that matters most an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like shy men? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 3:20 pm
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Replies: 73
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| Many women find shyness appealing. No, they don't. Women only "like" shy guys if they happen to look like Spencer Reid from Criminal Minds, but shy men like that generally don't exist. Listen well and listen now: if you're guy, shyness is one of the worst possible traits you can have. At ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Spawning offspring - a question for Aspie ladies |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,640
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| I wouldn't promote for something inhuman but.... :P hey, we all know that all of you aspie ladies will eventually get boyfriends/husbands, including the most whining ones among will get one, like this member **cough** Sweet***leaf***got a (extrovert) boyfriend recently, and there was this . **cough... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Spawning offspring - a question for Aspie ladies |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 12:00 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,640
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| They would do a great favor if they let the AS genes go extinct. Please, aspie ladies, earth population is too crowded already. This is an interesting point actually. I mean, if Aspergers really is primarily a genetic condition, the primary transmitters for the condition have to be women, they just... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Top 10 Reasons You Can't Get A Girlfriend |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 11:56 am
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Replies: 120
Views: 9,938
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| There's ugly mofos out there who can get a girlfriend, yes even an attractive girlfriend. They just have something that most guys don't have. A s**t load of confidence and kick-ass social skills around women. Sometimes simply not being afraid to talk to the girl you like and being the friendly char... |
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