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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: What jobs have you felt Comfortable with? |
| mixtape02 |
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Posted: 06 May 2016, 1:51 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 1,925
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| Food delivery. Get to relax while driving and be alone. Then when I got lost I freaked out about having to ask for help. ._. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselling Thread |
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Posted: 06 May 2016, 12:04 am
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Replies: 741
Views: 181,589
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| I struggle. THREE of my bio grandparents were alcoholics. They all died about my age. My brother is. And I know I am... but.... My therapist tried to talk me into AA mtgs but I just can't do those!! ! I hate groups of people. It really is hard to know if I could just not be so terrified of social i... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Hypersensitivity / Pain / Alcohol - Seeking Advice |
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Posted: 05 May 2016, 11:56 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 733
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| What was the withdrawal? Strong cravings? I’m giving in now and then but trying my hardest to go sober 95% of the time. Like, if I choose to drink, it won’t be as bad as before and I have better peace of mind on sober days. Being a non-drinker is easier when you say it’s for today and maybe on day 8... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is there such a thing as an Aspie fetish? |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2016, 1:46 pm
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Replies: 111
Views: 1,266
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| Simply put, yes. I used to hear all the time, the quietness of an Aspie was alluring because it made them "mysterious." I've been told the seeming line: "I'm still trying to figure you out" while I sat there mentally rolling my eyes because they thought this was some kind of roma... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Why are open relationships taboo? |
| mixtape02 |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2016, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 161
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| If your partner did not hint at all that they would be okay with an open relationship because they're monogamous, then they probably feel their trust was broken and that they never really knew you at all if the sudden question of "Can we open up our relationship?" arose and caught them off... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Medications for anxiety in Aspergers? |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2016, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 251
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| I'm on Lexapro 20 mg and it works great at removing my irritable moods and depression about life in general, where I can't even enjoy the day. I also have Ativan in case overwhelming panic occurs, but rarely need it as Lexapro does the long-acting job and removes previous rages and depressed modes I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I just did the STUPIDEST THING ! |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 5:21 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 3,239
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I hope it works out for you. Update us! If he sleeps with a lot of people as you say, he should respect you and at least respond appropriately at this point.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Playing around on OkCupid |
| mixtape02 |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,818
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| It shows you people you might like, but it doesn't mean you will. I met my girlfriend on Okcupid and our match was like low 70% but we go together like rammalammadoobop! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women make your move |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 4:38 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 3,084
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| It seems like the reflection on the app here is that it's better for women to do the talking so men don't dripple jizz all over themselves in 3 messages' time. I switched my sexuality to hetero on Okcupid once. With zero browsing it was creepville automatically. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why would he tell me this? |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 4:30 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,340
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| It kind of sounds like he could have lied about the girl being his ex because he likes her and wants to keep his option open to date her if she decides to try and date him. Your story gives off a shady vibe. In any case, I wouldn't go for him. But I'm also an overanalyzer. They could just be friends... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussion: Autism and Polyamory |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 3,482
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| I'm monogamous but I met abusive manipulative Ex in 2010 and proceeded to make out with her for the first time in a 3 year (toxic) correspondence. Only the next day she confessed she has a girlfriend , she just neglected to tell me before she chose to put her mouth on me that she is already in a rel... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seemed to scare my cousin's friend off |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,801
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| you could probably ask your cousin what the deal is with this chick, (like has this girl been talking trash about you behind your back?) if you want to make sure you didn't do anything wrong, but that's about it. How well do you get along with your cousin anyway? Maybe cousin was telling tales out ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Rejection Is A Good Thing |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 3:31 pm
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Replies: 44
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| Well, I prefer to call it "flirting" not "hitting on" haha but yes, you should be able to bounce back and take a little scrap before you find someone you are truly compatible with. I just got through reading some old Livejournal entries from 2010 and I was always having a crush a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Jealousy (?) |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,734
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| I think you're probably a lot younger, in middle or high school, so the competitiveness is there where you want to know the most in your favorite subject and if you don't you feel inadequate, right? It's just a young person thing... I mean, I think once you're older you'll realize that there are so ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does alcohol soothe ASD symptoms |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 1:17 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,650
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| I actually noticed alcohol was starting to make me rock back and forth slightly without realizing that's what was happening. I slightly attributed it to having asperger's being the cause because I realize they "stim" but I could see myself doing it in the mirror and stop myself, and I neve... |
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