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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help with girlfriend? |
| Oaktheprof |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 4:39 pm
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| jealous. she sounds lovely except the thinking you're lying part. I'm fine being touched so long as its only the girl I'm romantic with. I just don't like being surprise touched by other people. I have to put in effort to do that, while with women I dated it was just more with the flow. you just ne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help with girlfriend? |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 9:17 am
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| jealous. she sounds lovely except the thinking you're lying part. I'm fine being touched so long as its only the girl I'm romantic with. I just don't like being surprise touched by other people. I have to put in effort to do that, while with women I dated it was just more with the flow. you just ne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help with girlfriend? |
| Oaktheprof |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2015, 10:44 am
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| So I got a girlfriend five months ago. She's been my best friend for a few years, so I decided that she would make a good girlfriend. And she's really cool and awesome and whatnot. Like, we even each other out--she's a little bit crazy, outgoing, and extroverted, whereas I'm more reversed, introvert... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do I stop being so spineless? |
| Oaktheprof |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2015, 6:59 pm
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Replies: 9
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| So, I have a problem, and that problem is not belonging to the phylum Chordata. In other words, I have no backbone or spine. I'm just one of those guys that doesn't talk much (mostly because I'm tremendously awkward) and just does what he's told. Which is good--I personally feel like we got way too ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice? |
| Oaktheprof |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2015, 9:02 am
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Replies: 11
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| [quote="Bondkatten" Ahh I see that does indeed sound complicated, maybe you can find her some book about Asperger/Autism that might help her understand. And I think you have to be clear with her and explain that her saying "it doesn't change anything." is not nice of her. Her ide... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice? |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2015, 8:39 am
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Replies: 11
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| Does she know that you are on the spectrum? Have you explained to her how you feel and what your problems are? Good communication is important in a relationship; remember that she is not a mind reader. Since you have problems complimenting her, do you think it might be easier for you to compliment ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice? |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2015, 8:17 am
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Replies: 11
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| So I realized that what I'm trying to say is that I feel like I won't be able to make her happy. This is because I've tried, and it's really hard for me to touch other people. And since that's her love language, I feel like she won't feel loved. Also with the hopeless romantic thing, I love the idea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice? |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2015, 7:56 am
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| hey, everybody, I'm really sorry. I was just panicking when I wrote this, and I was "peopled out," so I was really overthinking and overreacting. I really do like her a lot, and upon reviewing my post, I sounded like a super selfish prick. So, yeah. Basically I was just kinda having a very... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice? |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2015, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 11
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| So, I need some advice. I recently acquired a, girlfriend, I guess you could say, and it's like, "coo, coo, whatevs." But there are four very large...er...things, that are kind of disconcerting, and I need some advice on how to deal with it. (And I'm not claiming to love her or anything, s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can anyone else "see the strings"? |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2015, 11:45 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Hey, guys, I'm new to Wrong Planet. I'm not really sure how old I am. I mean, my birth certificate says '97, but it was issued in '03, [so it's most definitely a conspiracy.] (those are sarcasm brackets; I find them quite useful.) Anyway, I was thinking today, and I notice patterns a lot, naturally,... |
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