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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My boyfriend is going to guess soon that I have AS |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2015, 1:58 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 577
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| It sounds like the problem isn't *his* perception of your autism, but *your* perception of it. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Any signs for when someone actually cares about you? |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2015, 7:27 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 720
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| I have this problem too. Sometimes I can't tell when they are just being nice, or really want to be around me. I've learned that if they are an adult, and they invite me somewhere, they probably want me around. It's different for kids because parents can be like "why don't you be nice and invit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do I do about a controlling girlfriend? |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 12:43 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,645
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Would she enjoy helping you care for your parents? It could be a bonding experience.
Or, a long-distance relationship with someone else might be better for your life right now.
Good luck, sounds like a sucky situation. |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Are there no new side scrolling arcade games? |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 1:33 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,141
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If you want a short, cheap game, Out There Somewhere is really fun
I miss arcades too!! |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: help with thinking about diagnosis, please |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,073
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I feel you, that sounds exhausting
YES bring a list. I saw a psychiatrist a while ago for this and did not.
Make the list very well-organized. Put your "most autistic" tendencies at the top and write an anecdote to back each one up.
I didn't do that and wish I did. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Taking on someone else's persona during sex |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 9:03 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 808
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I don't remember ever not.
When I was younger, i was maybe more focused on what was happening (rather than thoughts) because it was new. But after the novelty wears off, back to the rushing thoughts |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Women with Autism Overlooked? |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 9:02 pm
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Replies: 81
Views: 3,733
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| (commenting on the article) I fit very well into that mold, haha. I know other women, and some men, who do as well. It seems that people who have tendencies that, for whatever reason, are coded as "feminine" can have this happen to them. The actual gender of the person only matters because... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Concerned mother seeking answers about daughter's condition |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,681
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| Yes the traits are very Asperger, especially female Asperger. Have you or your daughter read Aspergirls by Rudy Simone? If you haven't, it's pretty cathartic. "But she also said Aspergers people can't detect sarcasm and peoples expressions and are more tactless than others whereas my daughter s... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: aspie women, do you hate women in general? |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2015, 3:08 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 26,515
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| When I was 16 or so I was like "whatever boys are way better, they like video games, and they don't care about stupid stuff like makeup and hair and clothes." Which is funny bc I cared about those things. Then my mind was blown when I met a girl who talked girly and liked hair and makeup a... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Taking on someone else's persona during sex |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2015, 3:02 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 808
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| HAHAHA me too, I'm a chameleon. I've been trying to focus on nice body sensations instead of thoughts. Of course this doesn't always work, but when sex is really good, it's when I'm able to just feel stuff wordlessly. What helps me a lot is exercise. During exercise I focus on what my body feels lik... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: misogynists on this forum. |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2015, 2:55 am
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Replies: 414
Views: 14,962
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| I agree there are lots of them, but see/hear just as many IRL, on facebook, on TV, youtube, and 10x more on 4chan... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: getting diagnosed soon |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2015, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 619
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| Oh, and he referred me to a person who does testing. My mental health insurance doesn't cover it, of course, (f**k Value Options) but I think I will do it because I want as many opinions as possible. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: getting diagnosed soon |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2015, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 619
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| Ok I went today. There is no verdict yet, but the psychiatrist said he doesn't think I'm autistic, but very similar. (lol wut?) a couple thoughts about that: 1. I am a VERY good performer in like all aspects of the word. I can make people think I am a totally different person than I am. I can fake l... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: The Diva Cup |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 12:00 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,085
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| I have one. It was totally rad for my first few periods, then I found I couldn't figure out how to wear it without pain/pushing on my bladder. And it would leak almost every day! As i'm sure you can tell, diva cup leaks are quite serious. After the 3rd or so leak I just gave up. bleh! Maybe this is ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: LISA series |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2015, 1:44 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 711
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I should probably add -
trigger warning: everything that could possibly trigger someone, lol |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: LISA series |
| budgiezilla |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2015, 1:42 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 711
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Fibbox wrote: And yes you are capable of making spoiler tags. There is a sticky thread here explaining how.
UGGHH missed it. Thanks.
I wouldn't say its humor is japanese-style, but it's ridiculous in the same ways that Earthbound is. Think moonside.
The battle system is really similar. |
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