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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2024, 11:58 am
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Replies: 21
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| Yeah that guy who told you that women only want to date criminals a.k.a. bad guys sounds like an Incel. It’s probably his attitude why he’s perpetually single. People with incel mentality are usually always single. And the saddest thing is that a lot of autistic men are incels and adhere to misogyni... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2024, 10:37 am
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Replies: 21
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Many times. So many times I have lost track. And I always get what I expect.
rse92 wrote: Have you tried asking women out in real life? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2024, 9:48 am
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Replies: 21
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| Many times. So many times I have lost track. And I always get what I expect. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2024, 9:32 am
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Replies: 21
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| I’m now 33 years old, and I’m starting to feel that it is getting too late for me to ever get into a relationship. The reason I never really been in a relationship is not because I never tried, but because of perpetual rejection. No matter how hard I tried to date or how many dating sites and facebo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to avoid Dating a Narcissist |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2024, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 180
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| That has literally been me. I’ve been so nice and I frequently overshare on my first date and I often got rejected for being “too nice” Or because I info/trauma dumped, something that has been recent. I have been doing that as I only want to date and be in a relationship with someone who isn’t judgy... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating difficulties |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2024, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 4,895
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| I am now 32 years old and foremost my entire life I have never been in a relationship. Last year I got into a brief relationship with someone who had numerous mental health issues. I was aware of their issues, and I was totally fine with dating them as I was so desperate to finally get into a relati... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Dealing with trauma and catastrophic ideations |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2024, 3:12 am
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Replies: 0
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| I spent six years in a special education school after dealing with horrible bullying in middle school and abuse at home. In the six years that I was there, I had a lot of trouble letting my guard down and was very apprehensive until my third or fourth year there and part of the reason it was so hard... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Catastrophic thinking |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2023, 7:49 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,035
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| This is also not the first instance in which a catastrophic prediction of mine came true. Earlier last year I was introduced to a girl through mutual friend of mine. She explained her situation and how she is currently between jobs and how she had a very nasty break up with her ex fiancé who was a v... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Catastrophic thinking |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2023, 3:30 am
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Replies: 10
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| Thank all you so much for all the advice. I really hope that my next partner will be a decent person. I’m not asking for much, since that my next partner doesn’t take advantage of me, or scapegoat me for their issues, as in the last couple relationships I’ve been in I was taken advantage of and made... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Catastrophic thinking |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2023, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 10
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| A couple of weeks ago I was predicting that my ex partner was going to dump me for absolutely no reason, and that she was going to do so in a very abrupt and toxic manner. I was so sure she was going to do that, that the night before the break up I messaged my friend and told her my suspicion that m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 31 and never been in a relationship |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2023, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 17
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| The girl on Hiki ended up being real and she really did have feelings for me and I had feelings for her and this is the first relationship I ever ended up in but when I was 24 years old I made a catastrophic prediction that I probably won’t get into my first relationship until I’m 31 that’ll and ver... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating issues |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2023, 2:50 pm
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Replies: 0
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| I am 31 years old and until this year I have never been in a relationship before. I have dated but it was very brief and nothing lasted more than a few weeks. However, this year I met a girl on Hiki, and she instantly professed her love to me after I stood up for her when she was being harassed by s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 31 and never been in a relationship |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2023, 11:56 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Hi, I’m Andi. I’m 31 years old. Until very recently, I’ve never been in a relationship before. I have briefly dated, with the longest date lasting a couple months, and even then I would not even consider dating especially since the person only ended up taking advantage of me. I was introduced to a g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 31 and still single |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2022, 2:13 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,058
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| My name is Andi, I’m non-bianry, and like the title suggests, I’m 31 and I have never been in a romantic relationship before. But don’t get me wrong, I have dated before, but it never it evolved into relationships. I also have numerous female friends, and yes I’ve asked a lot of them out, but all th... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Considering disowning your child? |
| climategeek |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2022, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 34
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| One of my own parents said that to me, out of the blue due to me stimming, whjch resulted in me having a meltdown and I wished they died in their sleep because they wished I wasn’t born. For a while I deliberately treated them horribly, I mean they always treated me horribly but them telling me they... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being ghosted |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2022, 12:45 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 610
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| Guilting does nothing except to make the person you're trying to guilt-trip resent you more. Exes are familiar and comfortable, even when they're jerks. Imagine a person sitting on a couch in their house watching TV or playing games, but they're sad and a bit lonely... yet there's this door on the ... |
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