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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is she into me and what should I do?

loughman
Posted: 27 Aug 2015, 8:23 am 

Replies: 58
Views: 2,597
Ok, 314 I'm gonna be blunt. This woman is being very unfair to you. You are a back burner option to her. You come when she calls. She blows you off because she knows you'll come right back and both give her an ego boost. She uses you for attention. You mean nothing of significance to her. She's NOT ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Tell Someone You "Like" Them

loughman
Posted: 27 Aug 2015, 7:14 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 956
Hi Frog: I agree w/ Astro 77 on this. There is a BIG difference between love and like. You yourself describe your feelings as "crush" and "like". If this guy doesn't have a clue how you feel, dropping the love bomb on him will be a shock. "like" establishes your interes...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Relationship Perception

loughman
 Post subject: Re: Relationship Perception
Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 7:29 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 695
@Baffled: I read your story and there are similarities to mine. Many of the responses are helpful. @Aspimike: luckily we are not in the same company and I right now have the opportunity to go to another position so that he and I will not have to work together. I think I'll move regardless of what he...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Relationship Perception

loughman
 Post subject: Re: Relationship Perception
Posted: 24 Aug 2015, 7:44 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 695
I should add that during the trip I was (respectfully) physical with him, rubbing his back for ex. while he drove, and we did hug when he dropped me off at the end of the trip, even if it did feel like his hug was in exact proportion to mine. All in all he did not pull away from my touch except the ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Relationship Perception

loughman
 Post subject: Re: Relationship Perception
Posted: 24 Aug 2015, 7:24 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 695
All aspies are different but it is a common trait for us to value honesty, and to find hints hard to pick up. So if this is a real-life situation you are going through with with an aspie male, then I would recommend being honest with him. You could try using 'subtle' hints that you two are in a rel...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Relationship Perception

loughman
 Post subject: Relationship Perception
Posted: 21 Aug 2015, 9:17 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 695
A couple things: hello. I am an NT woman. I've been reading this site for a couple months now as my brother is an Aspie and I suspect I friend/more than friend? might be and this site is an amazingly helpful tool. I've gone through 86 pages of posts and can't find a more direct answer to my followin...
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