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 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 13 Oct 2015, 8:02 pm 

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To be clear, what I meant about change is having to move between different environments and routines every so often: that's hard for a kid on the spectrum. We started preparing my son to transition to Middle School the summer after 4th grade, and we started preparing him for High School the summer ...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 13 Oct 2015, 7:22 pm 

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Views: 4,414
Right now his phone has been taken away because of the sleeping issue, but I was thinking I will get in the habit of emailing. Whether he answers or not at least maybe he'll see it.

The divorce isn't recent. It's been four and a half years. It just has been getting worse in the last couple years.

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 13 Oct 2015, 6:52 pm 

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Thank you. :) I think also that people can move on. I think it's all this crap that's been going on after the divorce and not the divorce itself that is hurting the most. We went through mediation initially, not court. My ex wouldn't agree to mediation and even if we did I don't think he'd listen to...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 11 Oct 2015, 11:01 pm 

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I was trying to think of something additionally helpful to advise, but I think unfortunately your next step is probably a lawyer, and I honestly do not know what else to advise in addition to that. Thanks! I do think I am going to go the court route. And so nice of you to spend time thinking about ...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 2:30 pm 

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Thanks for replying! I do try to be more unemotional lately, versus the begging or asking why why why do you hate me, or getting angry and frustrated myself. But he really doesn't want to be with me, so going back to his dad's is a win for him. He doesn't have tantrums exactly either, he just won't ...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 10:43 am 

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He was a good dad in that he wasn't really a "bad" dad. He read them stories and helped with bath time. Beyond that, there wasn't much. He would come home from work and get on the computer to play games, take a break for dinner and then get back to the computer until it was time to get the...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 7:28 am 

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Thank you for replying and for reading through my long post. I agree that therapy can be way too much. I hated the intense therapy too, having people invade our space so often and a lot of it seemed pointless. The mobile therapist he has now is supposed to help with his social skills and it's only a...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: divorced mom - 12 year hates me and won't come to my house

bbl215
Posted: 06 Oct 2015, 10:41 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 4,414
I have two sons. The older one (my aspie) is 12. His brother is 11. His dad and I have joint custody and live about a half mile apart. The boys switch houses on Mondays and stay with each parent for a full week. We've been divorced for 4.5 years now and my relationship with my older son keeps gettin...
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