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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling unwanted hurts |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 11:23 pm
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Replies: 27
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| No wonder you're failing: you're trying to date Australian girls, some of the most entitled, man-hating, sex-negative females on the planet. It would be like trying to sell meat at a vegan convention. Book a trip to the Philippines, and your lack of intimacy will be solved OVERNIGHT. I can't get la... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling unwanted hurts |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 6:10 pm
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| You've got girls who are good enough acquaintances/casual friends that you see them on an individual basis outside of group activities. Good sign. Why not ask one or two of them if they've a single girlfriend or two to set you up with? What does your best friend of 12 years say about your efforts? I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling unwanted hurts |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 5:43 pm
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| I don't think you make girlfriends. At least, not live ones :D . Clearly, you're not doing everything right or you wouldn't be having as little success as you are. Unless the friends that are telling you that you're doing everything right are VERY close friends, close enough that they're willing to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do Men with Asperger's Initiate Dates? |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 3:03 pm
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Replies: 119
Views: 9,123
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| I really hate this. When I don't approach women, everybody tells me I need to grow a pair of balls. When I do, everybody thinks that I'm a pervert who is just trying to get laid. Where and how are you approaching women? "Hi, I'm Marc. You are...??" to a girl at a dinner party at a mutual ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worst decision - okcupid |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 2:58 pm
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Replies: 156
Views: 6,816
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| I'm screwed then it seems, as I'm not a good looking guy and I am unemployed, I would love nothing more than to work, but being around people makes me physically sick and I shake due to my anxiety. All in all I'm a pathetic mess, so I am pretty much doomed to being a shut in and isolated, I've trie... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Social Skills Are last line of defense for human job seekers |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 9:54 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,234
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| The problem with that is the whole experience trap and the fact that on-the-job training is essentially a thing of the past, a special marketable minute skill that no one else can do well I don't know where to begin. Like I said, it seems most of us are totally disposable as workers including NTs w... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Social Skills Are last line of defense for human job seekers |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 6:53 am
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Replies: 15
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| The problem with that is the whole experience trap and the fact that on-the-job training is essentially a thing of the past, a special marketable minute skill that no one else can do well I don't know where to begin. Like I said, it seems most of us are totally disposable as workers including NTs w... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: How can I become able to afford a masters degree? |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 6:48 am
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Replies: 12
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| Scholarship or improve your skills to land a better job so you can pay for grad school yourself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worst decision - okcupid |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 6:45 am
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Replies: 156
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| Males are far more active on dating sites, many females are inactive. There are only a handful of active women being competed for by hordes of men at any given time. Think of free dating sites as shopping websites and the women are holding the cash. This. It disgusts me and it would make me feel li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Workplace infatuation |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,641
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| You enjoy spending time with her and she does with you. I say carry on as normal, but if you really want to see if she likes you in "that way" throw yourself into some 'accidental' situations where she would be tempted to act. Do not initiate anything yourself, always restrain the situati... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying too Hard in Relationships |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 1,627
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| There's a distinction that's being missed -- if you're single, you're certainly entitled to want a BF/gf to make you happy... but whether you find one or not is only partly within your control. So choosing to base your happiness on something that might not happen? Ugh. If you're coupled up, wanting ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sick of being the weirdo that no one loves |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 1:10 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Just fed up. Feel like every time I meet someone new that I like I get rejected. I'm sick of relatives asking if I've met "anyone yet?" Yet... like I'm not fulfilling a milestone that I am meant to reach. Nope, no one likes me back yet... no one ever will... Tell the rellies to stop askin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Workplace infatuation |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 12
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Spend as little time with her as possible. Make up an excuse to get your desk moved someplace else. Don't see her socially or accept rides from her ever.
She's married and thus unavailable until she is legally separated.
Let. It. Go. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worst decision - okcupid |
| MrsMartians |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 156
Views: 6,816
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| ^ aka having no standards, and go for whoever says yes first. So....I dunno what to describe this, someone finds me the word. I think the word is "desperate". You need to be pretty desperate to message 100s of girls without ever getting an reply. The best way to find compatible girls as a... |
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