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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Life is over |
| MadamePolariz |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 11:06 am
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| Do you have a combination of these? Hearing loss Dyslexia Autism English as second language Cognitive sensory issues It does sound very complicated for a women to deal with because it all communication barriers. I am totally fine with it, but I can understand why women hates me because I appear too... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 10:44 am
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| I feel like there are different expectations out of a guy to be considered attractive that put someone on the spectrum at a disadvantage considering our usual deficits in employment and social capital and that's on top of the usual standards of male beauty such as height which is as discriminatory ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 8:50 am
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| I think "signals" are a myth for the most part. I'm a decent looking non-aspy, and I've never received any. All the non-hookers I banged gave me lukewarm reactions at best on our dates. Basically girls can take or leave sex. So, as a guy, if you don't take action (i.e. have great logistic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| MadamePolariz |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 7:57 am
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| ^^ yes on the negative attitudes. And the "waaaah, it's unfair girls won't date me but I haven't actually asked anybody out in the last 6+ months". If you're not asking, you're not rejected.... you never even bothered to try That's partly true, but what you are forgetting, is that many gu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 7:53 am
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| ^^ yes on the negative attitudes. And the "waaaah, it's unfair girls won't date me but I haven't actually asked anybody out in the last 6+ months". If you're not asking, you're not rejected.... you never even bothered to try That's partly true, but what you are forgetting, is that many gu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Yep I f****d up |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 7:40 am
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Replies: 37
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| English as second language Autism Dyslexia Hearing loss Cognitive dissonace issues Yep, life is already over. f****d up communication issues. When I bother to make efforts to make improvements, it still not helping my life that should and supposed to be improved. But every single women still pushes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Attempts to try and figure out this whole dating thing again |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 8:42 pm
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I do not understand attempting to flirt using texts or messenger apps either. I text to sort out logistics ("see you at the pub at 7", "running late, be there in 10"), period.
Have you considered giving online dating a shot, using a free site or two like POF or OKC? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: matchmaking moms |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 8:38 pm
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| How old is your child and have they expressed any interest in being set up on dates by you, their mom? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS partner wants to end relationship - advice needed please |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 8:37 pm
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Replies: 29
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| He is an adult and said its over. Everything else is just noise. With all due respect, we are both adults and there are certainly more ways to communicate than with just with words - why would I apply more weight to him verbalising that it's over then anything he does ? That seems a bit illogical t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS partner wants to end relationship - advice needed please |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 9:47 am
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He is an adult and said its over. Everything else is just noise.
Assume it's over, start planning your new life -- including new accommodations -- for when the lease is up. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 9:26 am
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| Girls in their 20s and 30s are statistically more likely then guys of the same age to be in relationships. The second graph shows the number of men and woman with and without autism who are in relationships. You can view it here. http://www.rdos.net/eng/relation.pdf. Scroll down to the second. Why ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: NTs always win, Aspies always lose |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 8:47 am
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Replies: 45
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Cockroach96 wrote: In that case, what would autism be? A normal variation?
Anything that is a variation of normality is not normal.
Neurotribes. You need to read Neuritribes, a compelling historical argument that autism's ALWAYS existed, has always been a color on the spectrum of humanity. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS partner wants to end relationship - advice needed please |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 7:53 am
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He's an adult and has broken up with you. There's nothing you can do.
I'm so sorry you're going through such a tough time and hope your medical issues are swiftly sorted. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: ASD - Married and in relationship: advice |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2015, 11:46 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,971
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| You are trying very, very hard but are quoted officials to understand and are intentionally avoiding (and flat-out disparaging!) the individuals most likely to be gracious and understanding about your not insignificant communication challenges: other people with disabilities. Your communication chal... |
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