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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This lady I met |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 8:44 am
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| [wuote] THIS is what I have been told by many people. All of my counselors and psychologists told by judging my morals and values I should be friends with women first. Its because I get hurt anyways. Being an aspie is prone to meltdowns and attacks. I have a hearing loss too, so most women won't abl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This lady I met |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 8:30 am
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Replies: 17
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sly279 wrote: Katy just hates guys especially aspie guys.
Who is Katy? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Date other fat people if you're fat" |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 9:49 pm
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Replies: 109
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| They say that because fat people typically don't have as high of standards, many of them will date anybody who shows interest. Especially fat chicks. This isn't meant to be harsh but if you're a moderately fat girl, you know that many guys are going to be turned off by it. And if a guy happens to s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This lady I met |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 17
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| There are two perspectives on getting a relationship with someone. As from my learning experiences, listening to people and my psychologists this year. 1. Casual dating/relationships - lets hop in bed and shag = short term relationship. 2. Want to have a committed and long term relationship? You mu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This lady I met |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 6:44 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Why its a red flag? I thought leading into good long term relationship happens to start from being friends. From learning communication strategies together, be comfortable of each others through trust and honesty, and be understanding of each others' differences. We did talked about this and we bot... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to handle this? |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 2:24 pm
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Replies: 8
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| BUT you're also a couple, not just roommates, and that muddies things, from my perspective at least. It does not seem to strange to me that a wife, say, kicks out a husband for the afternoon while he friends are over, nor for the man to kick out his wife for an evening so that he can play poker wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This lady I met |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 17
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| She's made it clear she only wants to be friends. Really, really, really clear. If you are content to only be her friend, indefinitely, by all means keep hanging out with her as friends. If you're being her friend with the ulterior motive of wanting to date her, that's disingenuous. Given how unhapp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do any other guys feel this way I do? |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 20
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| It's not limited to guys. I have known a lot of women who would prefer to be with a hot guy, but settle for a reliable one who is into them. I've had similar thoughts myself, but was still able to fall in love and get into a good relationship (albeit not a 'till death do us part' one). It doesn't s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why is being nice considered weird/creepy? |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 3:02 pm
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Replies: 36
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| why do people always assume that nice people have some kind of hidden motive (eg.when a guy is nice to a girl, the girl thinks that he is creepy). They don't. Surely not all or always. As for the "hidden motive" that could be the voice of experience, as it's hardly uncommon for someone to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Unwittingly replying to girls like a rude as*hole. |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 1:13 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,687
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| Before being mean to someone, ask yourself, "Would I have the balls to treat this person this way if they were male, bigger and stronger than me, and well-trained for combat?". If it's a girl, would you have the guts to treat her that way in front of a big badass boyfriend, father, brothe... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why is being nice considered weird/creepy? |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 1:06 pm
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Replies: 36
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| A lot of the time, the guy was being normal-level nice, sometimes not even flirting, and the girl just found him unattractive. These girls can't tell the difference between them being uninterested and true creepiness. No. No. No ad infinitium. Girls have brains. I cannot believe you just said that!... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Date other undateable people if you’re undateable? |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 24
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| ^ What are you thinking? I'm a dateless virgin looking to increase my dating chances. Looking less like a scarecrow WILL help. If my plan doesn't work there's still the homeless shelter. :skull: Post a picture of yourself. There have been numerous members who insisted they were the ugliest, most re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 12:34 pm
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| Probably because making it hard and risky to approach the girls is the whole point. It weeds out would-be suitors who get forcefully turned away by some badass, and those who, knowing what's good for them, keep a low profile. No, it's likely because you are unlikely to meet a person who's number yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Date other undateable people if you’re undateable? |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2015, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 24
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Earthling wrote: Yep, so my plan is to work on one important good quality, such as physique, and date the almost-undateable.
Unless you end up Brad Pitt hot after fixing your physique, it's pretty unlikely girls will be throwing themselves at you simply because you're so damn good looking. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why is being nice considered weird/creepy? |
| Pineapplejuicex |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2015, 7:56 pm
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Replies: 36
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Rudin wrote: I don't know, but apparently nice guys finish last.
Nice, in and of itself, isn't a "quality", it's a basic social expectation.
The guys who insist they're nice and that girls only date jerks, well, I'm always curious about what actual qualities the former think they possess. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why is being nice considered weird/creepy? |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2015, 5:50 pm
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Replies: 36
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| ^^^ yeah, exactly! This succinctly explains the difference between a Nice Guy and a good guy. The sense of entitlement, ugh. The author hits the nail on the head: "For the most part, Nice Guys are really just too wrapped up in their bitterness and entitlement to really think of women as people.... |
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