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Forum: The Haven Topic: Aspergers is killing my life |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,042
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| Why not try to accept yourself as you are? The autism isn't fixable. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Multiple guys competing for one girl |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 4,636
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| Why don't we just lock this thread? Because darkphantomx1 has had personal issues for a while now, and has brought it out on this forum through aggression. We're psychologically digging deep to find the underlying issues, and it appears to be working. Perhaps we can provide him some constructive cr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 6:24 pm
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Replies: 672
Views: 30,338
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| Maybe stop giving girls you haven't met the wrong impression and start arranging to meet local girls in a nearby public place like Starbucks or a pub to get to know them first! Meeting local girls is hard for me. Nearly all the time they reject me. Asking girls out in meatspace makes me really nerv... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Need more services for successful employment |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 637
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Being angry, bitter, resentful and rage-y sounds totally like a strategy for funding meaningful employment. Not.
Perhaps you should focus on what YOU could contribute to a specific field/employer BEFORE demanding all sorts of supports from said employer? Why should anyone hire YOU? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why is being nice considered weird/creepy? |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 5:58 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 6,113
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| Over, over friendly IS creepy. Duh. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I wonder if I come across as too needy. |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 5:56 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 776
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| Join a movie or book club, maybe you'll meet folks with similar interests. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Multiple guys competing for one girl |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 4,636
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| It's wrong that you want to illude a girl who wants a relationship only to use her for sex. There are girls that want casual sex without a relationship, you can go for them. I don't see why you want to go after a girl who wants a relationship and hurt her. It's because of guys like you that many wo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Multiple guys competing for one girl |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 3:32 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 4,636
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| Ok let me set one thing straight. I actually do care about the relationship part of girls. I'm one of those hopeless romantic types, I want someone whom I can talk to and be friends with and we really connect and get along. Yes I know i'm a very horny guy who likes sex (who doesn't at my age? lol) ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Unwittingly replying to girls like a rude as*hole. |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 3:11 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,551
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Spiderpig wrote: That's why being approached by nice people sucks---there's no acceptable way to get them to leave you alone.
You can politely acknowledge them and say you're not interested in chatting. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 3:09 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,617
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| Making friends is still pretty easy in college, particularly with STEM people. But getting girlfriends and getting laid will actually be HARDER than it was in high school. Goodlookingloser's college social hierarchy pyramid sums up the situation pretty well. Basically you need to be in the top 20% ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Multiple guys competing for one girl |
| Icelandcar |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 2:24 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 4,636
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darkphantomx1 wrote: I think with my penis, not my brain.
huehuehue
Lonely, lonely penis. |
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