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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 30 Dec 2015, 2:36 pm 

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I think it is a build up of everyday life that sets his shutdowns into motion. He has a very physical job and he has to deal with me, kids, and things around the house. He plays games online to destress (usually about 8 hours per day). I want to be supportive but I don't know what to do...he also ju...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 30 Dec 2015, 11:10 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,259
Our marriage is definitely worth saving...but I need tools/suggestions on what I can specifically say and/or do to improve our situation. I know going to a counselor may help but what can I do to get us to this point...I need to not screw us up worse...what are some things AS men need to "see&q...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 30 Dec 2015, 9:10 am 

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What is the best thing for me to do when he comes back home from visiting his dad? He has called me several times to give updates and he tells me he misses me and loves me....so I have not turned my back on him. I have even offered to go help him because I know he has never dealt with anything like ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 29 Dec 2015, 4:29 pm 

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I have talked with him about what it does to me when he says things like this and at the time he seems to understand...I know he gets extremely overwhelmed with having a job, wife, and children and it is a lot for him to handle. I love him and I have promised that I will never leave him. He is still...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 29 Dec 2015, 10:09 am 

Replies: 20
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I am trying to wait for him to calm down and clear his head...this has happened before. The day after he told me this though his dad called from out of state to tell him he is dying any day. I have tried to be supportive the best I can but it is hard after the hurtful things he has told me. I love h...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 28 Dec 2015, 10:16 pm 

Replies: 20
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He has told me that he thinks he has feelings for a woman he met online via an mmo that lives in another country. But this is in the wake of him being extremely overwhelmed...which I did not see until now...and he is in shutdown mode currently.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Need help understanding my husband

Confusedwife
Posted: 28 Dec 2015, 10:00 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,259
My husband just informed me he wants to get a divorce...the 3rd time in 8 years...and I'm not sure what to do.
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