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 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: I've been sexually assaulted multiple times & I'm learning

hitomi
Posted: 19 Aug 2018, 8:48 pm 

Replies: 9
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Hi, This is very important issue for us, I mean, women with asperger. I also had sexuary assulted when I was 13 by my biological father. Why? I have believed that there were so many reasons. But your post exactly represent the reasons: >It happens surprisingly often, probably from a combination of t...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 28 Jan 2018, 6:12 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
It is a real pleasure to know all of your opinions. Thanks a lot! But in reality, what most people, at least in my country (somewhere in Asia), think is far different from that in this site wrong planet. I suppose 90% of people in my country would not agree with my feeling. A friend of mine said to ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 22 Jan 2018, 3:57 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
I use the term "obsequious " as bad meaning. I am sorry my expression is ambiguous.

For "elephant in the room," You are quite right.
I cannot understand why my family members can not see this elephant or why they can pretend as if it is not exist.

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 22 Jan 2018, 2:17 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
Hi, magz. Thank you for your thoughtfulness. I had no way of telling my father was alcoholic or not back then. Even now I am not sure about it. Because he didn't behave violently. He never beat me. Moreover, he had gone to work every day. He was an engineer. So he was considered a very serious perso...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 7:28 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
Hi Spyoon and Benjamin. Thank you for your reply and warm words. I will be able to forgive myself despite I am not helping my old and weak father and my sisters and relatives are not forgive me. I have overwhelmed for several decades by anxiety caused by guilt relating my father. I have felt that I ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 4:51 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
Hi,SPartOfMeVeteran, For this decade, I have sought a professional help but it did not work for me, including many counselors and the clinician who diagnosed me as asperger. The reason is the sexual abuse had stopped practically more than 30 years ago. I do not meet my father for 10 years. Although,...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Asperger and abuse

hitomi
 Post subject: Asperger and abuse
Posted: 19 Jan 2018, 10:22 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 791
Hi, there. Please let me know how you feel after you read the following my experience. I am 49 years old single woman with Asperger and ADHD. When I was 13, my mum died of a disease suddenly. The bereaved family members included me, my biological father, my little sister, and my older sister. My fam...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Being yourself

hitomi
 Post subject: Re: Being yourself
Posted: 16 Jan 2016, 5:50 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,523
Hi, Ilovesnails. I understood that I actually have been felt the same problem as you for long time when I knew the fact that many women with AS have some high ability to pretending be overly normal to fit in, from many books and Internet. In my case, I can be myself in my family of origin or otherwi...
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