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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I wonder how people see me? |
| DinnerPlate |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2016, 8:13 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,031
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| Ha, ha, I wish it were a matter of not wanting to offend you. I get the same from people who casually put me down all the time, but still know to skilfully avoid giving me any information I can actually use to improve myself. I think helping us is just about the last thing they could give the faint... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: How to study when you don't want to? |
| DinnerPlate |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2016, 8:02 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,005
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| Study subject that interests you or bribe yourself to compete tasks, eg after I turn in this paper I will buy myself a treat. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Friendzone |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2016, 7:57 am
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Replies: 343
Views: 15,632
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| No one is entitled to a relationship; you have to earn one, just like you would earn any other privilege. What an original observation. If I didn't know any better I'd think you were implying there are people here who didn't already know that. There is alway a need for re-stating this "obvious... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Friendzone |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:09 pm
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Replies: 343
Views: 15,632
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| Maybe if you actually appreciated the friendship offered to you by women instead of romantic interest, you might just make some nice friends--and maybe those friends can introduce you to other women they know that might take an interest in you romantically. You will never know if you think women ar... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Amount of effort required for men to be appealing |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 90
Views: 4,138
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| Well over half of Americans are overweight or obese and 85% of us are or were married to a person of the opposite sex. Plus 15% are poor enough to be entitled to food stamps at any given time. Clearly, folks who don't put much effort into their physical appearance or income level still date/marry...... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do some females have against virgin males? |
| DinnerPlate |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:50 am
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Replies: 207
Views: 2,077
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| Given that in the USA, less than 0.5% adults aged 40+ are virgins, women are clearly willing to have sex with virgin men. (Around 10% population's gay, roughly equal # men and women, so they effectively cancel each other out. That leaves 90% of the population as heterosexual, the vast vast majority ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: 4 Hours Assistance? He Is Joking, Right? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:42 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 444
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| My social worker is only providing me 4 hours support. He was supposed to contact an agency in December but did not, claiming he was waiting for me to make my mind up. Apart from this, I called The Action Group and he had not contacted them. I spoke to him and he said I will only get 4 hours of sup... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:36 am
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Replies: 330
Views: 18,078
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| I think those very thoughts you express cause you to give off a non-confident expression. I don't know. Even when I feel happy and confident people still feel sorry for me and target me instead of treating me like an equal. I don't really care much for the people that do this, but sometimes I think... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Friendzone |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:31 am
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Replies: 343
Views: 15,632
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| I been in the friendzone a lot. What really hurts is that I really wanted to be their friend even thou they wouldn't date me & they kept coming to me to complain about other guys they dated & they'd make comments about how they wished they could find a guy like me. You've always got the opt... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Friendzone |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 8:49 pm
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Replies: 343
Views: 15,632
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| That word in general makes me so angry its not even funny. I absolutely think it is one of the most despicable things people can do to each other. I wanna know how to attract women so I never fall into this again, I will evict all women from my life that do this to me period. I will not stoop to th... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Bullies |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,515
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| They eventually managed to teach me the harsh truth that being too weak to defend myself made me deserve to be bullied. They were too soft on me, in fact, as I've survived so far, while others, probably much stronger, and therefore worthier of living, than me, were driven to suicide. Life's not fai... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Considering suicide again.. |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 7:58 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 923
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Please get help - it exists and is available.
You clearly want to live, or you wouldn't be on this site, hoping folks will talk you out of offing yourself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ways to meet a girlfriend/boyfriend other than dating sites? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,298
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| My suggestions are: - ask family, friends or coworkers to set you up - join a club or meetup for an activity you enjoy - reconsider online dating, because if you don't like socializing and won't date colleagues it's your best bet for meeting someone. If someone you're not attracted to shows interest... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating in your 30s |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 6:17 pm
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Replies: 121
Views: 9,182
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| meh. Online dating is like a computer game. Losing at a computer game is no big deal if every once in a while you win, correct? It may take a lot of trying to get your first win. So from my very few wins with online dating in several years, I ended up with multiple FWBs and ultimately a wife which ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do women do this? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 77
Views: 3,278
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| I think a lot people already explained it well here Its just rude, creepy and make people feel uncomfortable. So dont do it >> To paraphrase a Supreme Court judge, creepy's hard to define but you know it when you see it. When the hairs on the back of my neck stand up... well, that dude is creepy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What did my brother mean? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2016, 4:40 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 798
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| When I was 16 a lot of girls found me cute and I was considered to be handsome and a really likable person by many. Fast forward 10 years later and now aged 26 i just don't have the same appeal anymore, a lot of girls dislike me and I am walked all over by many people. I talked to my brother about ... |
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