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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How can a mute person get friends? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 10:47 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 601
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| When I compare myself to neurotypicals, I have a feeling like the part of my brain responsible for talking and communication is brain-dead. I am quiet because I literally don't know what to talk about with other people. I talk only when I have an inspiration or a idea what to talk about. I didn't ch... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I the only "mute" aspie here? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 10:22 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 793
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| I have not found no other "muteness" on the internet other than selective muteness and complete muteness. Are people completely unaware that this kind of debilitating "muteness" exists? My kind of "muteness" differs both from selective muteness and complete muteness. I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I the only "mute" aspie here? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 2:08 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 793
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| When I am in human company such as college or workplace. I rarely talk, because most of the time, I don't have anything to say. I may talk only on Wednesday with my coworkers for example, but not talk on all other days in a week. I am a very quiet person. I talk only when I have inspiration or an id... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Best years of your life, my ass |
| ck990 |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 1:57 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,603
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| When my professor in high school said to the whole class that teenage years are the best years of our lives, I felt resentment and absurdity inside me. A part of me wanted to respond to the professor statement, but instead I didn't say anything when he said that because I feared my built-up emotions... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Normies and virgin-shaming |
| ck990 |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 1:54 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 2,734
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| Normies are sheep that follow the herd. People who choose conformity over reason. They don't give a second thought to what they are doing because they are insecure and they fear social rejection. Aspies who are misanthropic about people might generalize that all neurotypicals are like this (being co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like or dislike effeminate men? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 8:39 am
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Replies: 102
Views: 5,498
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| Just be comfortable with yourself. This whole debate of what men want and what women want is only good at dividing people. Different men want different things. Different women want different things. Do you want to fall in love with a person or a gender? You seem to have the most realistic answer. S... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like or dislike effeminate men? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 3:16 am
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Replies: 102
Views: 5,498
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| I don't think that this works for every women on this planet. There are even studies who prove the opposite, especcially in first world countries. https://www.yourtango.com/20071356/feminine-men-make-perfect-partners-according-to-survey Im aware that your are talking about asian men here, but I oft... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like or dislike effeminate men? |
| ck990 |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 2:57 am
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Replies: 102
Views: 5,498
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: They will hang you now.
Who will hang me? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like or dislike effeminate men? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 2:41 am
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Replies: 102
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| I will be talking here about specific East Asian men, because I have not seen this cultural phenomenon elsewhere. There is even a word for it - bishounen. In Europe for example, bishounen would be teased and bullied for being effeminate, but it seems socially acceptable in East Asia (although I am n... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger empathy vs. Neurotypical empathy |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 1:00 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,402
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| Empathy: the abiilty to understand and share the feelings of another. Someone judges you harshly and incorrectly because they don't understand you? Someone calls you a name because you don't respond the way they would have? Someone bullies you because you don't talk a lot? Someone excludes you from... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies don't understand humor - greatest nonsense I've heard |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 12:47 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 673
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| When I don't laugh at their jokes, some people say I didn't get the joke or have no sense of humor. What these people fail to realize is that they are unfunny and that their jokes are not funny. I only laugh to jokes that I find funny, I don't laugh to unfunny, cheesy and immature jokes. I didn't sa... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: We as Aspies should stop trying to make friends/relationship |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2018, 3:32 am
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Replies: 157
Views: 6,357
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auntblabby wrote: ^^^^sounds like a  just illuminated in your thinking. IMHO the service least likely to send you to a foreign land, would be the coast guard. it is run by the department of transportation and not part of the department of defense, it's mission is the homeland.
I don't live in USA. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Online Friends |
| ck990 |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2018, 3:28 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 667
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auntblabby wrote: ck990 wrote: Online friends are not friends. From my perspective they don't even deserve to be called friends because they don't fit the definition of what a friend actually means. please elaborate?
As I said in the other thread. I have a stricter definition of friendship. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: We as Aspies should stop trying to make friends/relationship |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2018, 3:17 am
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Replies: 157
Views: 6,357
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| I am curious about the "one true friend" you described- [if you don't mind talking about it] is this person online or offline, and what is happening with this friend now? I don't know what happened to him, I am not in contact with him because he lives in another country. The reason why my... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies don't understand humor - greatest nonsense I've heard |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2018, 2:05 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 673
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| Aspies are supposed to have black and white thinking yet these statements are a product of black and white thinking What whoever wrote that fails to understand is disability is not necessarily inability. It is not that Aspies can't understand sarcasm or intent it is that often these abilities are l... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Online Friends |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2018, 1:40 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 667
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| Online friends are not friends. From my perspective they don't even deserve to be called friends because they don't fit the definition of what a friend actually means. |
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