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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Back from the Asylum |
| hellowp |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2016, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 27
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| so i guess i had a bad day.. i bet i feel this way because i didn't eat yet but still its a vicious cycle. What should i do when i start thinking about suicide? I dont want to bother anyone and i dont want to take medication... what should i do when i feel so low and so worthless, like im just a pr... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Suicidal thoughts |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2016, 7:09 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,442
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| I can hear them over there now, I talk and everyone ignores me/ shuts up/ or gets annoyed and makes fun of me or tells me to shut up. They talk and everyone joins in and laughs and engages. This is horrible. Could try to figure out what it is they don't like about you? Wonder if the best thing is t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is there hope or should I just give up? |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 10:26 pm
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Replies: 80
Views: 6,838
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| Is there hope or should I just give up? The Bible Belt is a very judgemental and fear based culture. [...] I wish I was never born here. Maybe move to a different city? Not sure where you are, but maybe try a different city, one that is liberal (away from the Bible Belt), a larger city, find an ecl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
| hellowp |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 2:56 am
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Replies: 330
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| Just saw your post Stressed Out. Gosh. Those people are probably trying to bully you into quitting. They probably want to bully you so much, little by little, that at some point you will think it's not worth working there. Horrible people who enjoy making fun of others and tormenting them. Reminds ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 2:45 am
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Replies: 330
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| How does one even go about seeking out someone with Asperger's irl? I never found a real clear answer on that, except "look in libraries" or "go to meetup groups". Isn't it kinda apparent to you, as you meet people, if they have or don't have Aspergers? If not right away, then a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 2:34 am
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Replies: 330
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| The styles of interaction are so different that maybe the best success for us is with others with Aspergers. I'd rather be with someone on the spectrum, but a lot of them would act that way with me too. Gosh I think things would go better with them. Wouldn't be ideal, but probably better, and maybe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Suicidal thoughts |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 1:33 am
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Replies: 28
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| I just sent you a private message but also wanted to post something here. You could try an ER department at a hospital. Call first and ask if they provide mental health crisis help. Mention that you self-injure sometimes and are having difficulty getting a handle on suicidal thoughts. Say the same t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2016, 10:48 pm
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Replies: 330
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| When you talk to people, in person or on the internet, do you show interest in them? Yes. I ask them questions, make plans, I'm there if they have some kind of problem ect. Ok I see. I was just trying to think of a possibility. One other thing. I know a few people with marked Aspergers. They are li... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I prefer the company of non-autistic people |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2016, 1:18 pm
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Replies: 35
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| This has come up a few times; I tend to get along poorly with other autistic people. I can kind of do it here because the whole interaction ends with a mouse click, but in a face-to-face interaction I tend to find the whole thing emotionally disturbing. Shorter contact just leaves me sullen and unn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2016, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 330
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slw1990 wrote: hellowp wrote: When you talk to people, in person or on the internet, do you show interest in them? Yes. I ask them questions, make plans, I'm there if they have some kind of problem ect.
Ok I see. I was just trying to think of a possibility. |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: sweden prepares itself for WWIII, hostilities with russia |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2016, 2:57 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,865
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2016, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 330
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| They don't like my eye-contact, it seems. My kind of eye-contact. Do you think this is what happens with you? Or do you become critical during interactions? Maybe it's my eye contact because sometimes people give me weird looks when I make eye contact. Sometimes I'm critical if i didn't feel like i... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Any Athletic Aspies Out There? |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 88
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| From my observations, probably the majority of Aspergians are non-athletic and tend to be sedentary given that alot of them tend to be interested in activities that don't require any physical excertion (computer programming, video games, electronics, etc...), in addittion to their poor coordination... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 8:56 pm
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Replies: 330
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| How is it a problem to avoid looking at women? Isn't it your best bet at minimizing your creepiness? She is saying something different. She is hurt and confused by how so many men avoid looking at her or give her strange looks. She looks at them, and they avoid looking at her. Also she says these m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 330
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| How is it a problem to avoid looking at women? Isn't it your best bet at minimizing your creepiness? She is saying something different. She is hurt and confused by how so many men avoid looking at her or give her strange looks. She looks at them, and they avoid looking at her. Also she says these m... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Famous YouTuber mocks autistic people |
| hellowp |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2016, 11:51 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 6,995
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The video is horrible  |
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