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Forum: The Haven Topic: why is it. |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2016, 3:04 pm
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Replies: 63
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| You don't get emotionally invested too early by not getting emotionally invested too early. You tell yourself that you don't know the person (you don't). You don't spend an hour on a carefully crafted message (yiu dash off a quick response) and don't be crushed if you don't hear back. Hell, assume y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seeing all long-term relationships as fundamentally boring |
| Bluelaggongirl |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2016, 2:45 pm
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Replies: 188
Views: 10,566
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You aren't interested in long term relationships. You're not in a long term relationship. No one can force you to be in one against your will.
Not seeing the problem here! |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: why is it. |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:59 pm
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Replies: 63
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| Who else ciuld possibly be to blame for a person not getting dates than, well, the person not getting the dates? I'm not seeing how it can be anybody else's fault... but if others have other ideas, by all means, enlighten me. (It's also worth noting that dating involves a hefty amount of rejection f... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do people on this forum always side with women? |
| Bluelaggongirl |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 200
Views: 8,915
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| Just because a girl replied to ONE message doesn't mean she's gonna date you. A girl who exchanges a few messages with you and decides not to agree to go out with you might be doing it for any number of reasons that include, but are by no means limited to: 1. Two or three messages is enough to deter... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seeing all long-term relationships as fundamentally boring |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 188
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| So don't date anyone long term. Easy-peast. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sad i don't have a sweetheart |
| Bluelaggongirl |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:27 pm
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Replies: 136
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| There are plenty of women who are perfectly okay with sharing men, including men they're married or otherwise committed to -- they're called swingers and it's called "the lifestyle"). No legal changes are required. A quick Google search turns up lots of articles in fact-checked publication... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers impacts my dating ability |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Referring to yourself as involuntarily celibate is an excellent way to send girls running for the hills. It's a term exclusive to creepsters. Have you considered dating girls with disabilities? Asking your friends to set you up? Finding friends you don't feel the need to subject to unsolicited lectu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What kinds of women show interest in you? |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 105
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DateOfBirth wrote: Girls are too shy to talk to me.
Or so scared you're a serial
Killer that rheumatoid you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting a girlfriend feels like an impossible task |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2016, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 188
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| Girls aren't objects to be acquired. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: why is it. |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2016, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 63
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| The flipside is the folks with really high standards have two options if they're still single - staying that way or lowering them. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sad i don't have a sweetheart |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2016, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 136
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Retrogamer87- What if you're perfectly average? What if you're not a looker? What if the girls you consider to be super-hot are empirically only kinda-sorta-maybe-hot-after-four-beers?
As long as you're happy, why does it matter if your partner is one in a dozen or one in a million? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Say Something Nice/Lovely About Someone You Love |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2016, 8:41 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 1,240
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Always snobs and as*holes at the school exchange program... |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2016, 8:42 pm
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| It's a universal kid thing to complain about the boringness of classes (regardless of whether said classes are boring) and acknowledging privilege isn't an especially strong suit among teens. Reset your cow rations to something more reasonable? It could be a less emotionally taxing to you approach f... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: why is it. |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2016, 8:39 pm
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Replies: 63
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| It depends on the age of the girl and where they live. People in Manhattan, London, Dublin and other big cities tend not to own homes or have cars - it's very common to be in your twenties or early thirties and live in a rented apartment with a roommate. And to never, ever own a car. 15% of women ar... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2016, 8:27 pm
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Replies: 330
Views: 18,299
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| How do you know you're undateable if you haven't asked anyone out? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What kinds of women show interest in you? |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2016, 3:26 pm
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Replies: 105
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| Or you could get therapy. If you're so awful that you'd be abisive to any girl who'd deign to be with you you need it. If yo think your lowly status would be de facto abuse to any girl who deigned to date you, you need it. |
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