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Forum: The Haven Topic: I got let go on my first day |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2017, 3:03 pm
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| Thank you for the kind words. I wish they would of at least given me a chance to improve. They could of told me I was being too slow I might of been able to do it faster. I'm feeling a little better now. I just had to express some frustration. Its no wonder they said they're always trying to find so... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I got let go on my first day |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2017, 1:45 pm
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Replies: 10
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I really want to kill myself right now. It was my very first day and they let me go because I was too slow and shy. All I had to do was mop floors but I couldn't even do that right. I feel like a huge disappointment to my family  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Admitting you have Aspergers? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,401
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I think I'd be more relaxed if I told a date because then she'd presumably know more about my potential mannerisms.
I feel like if she were to find out later she may be angry, that's my reasoning with telling her sooner. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Admitting you have Aspergers? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I'm very keen on honesty and I feel like if I don't tell a potential date I have Asperger's Syndrome she may feel betrayed or like I have lied to her. Is it ever ok to tell a date you have Aspergers? Or is this just a bad move? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you HAPPY today. |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 34,167
Views: 1,415,505
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My new cat is warming up to me and she climbed up my leg to lick my face.  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Too much anxiety |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2017, 7:58 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 355
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Sarahsmith wrote: Oh what a sin! You probably just have to get used to it. You would not be the first person in history to be overwhelmed by college. Hope you can find a way. Good luck.
Thank you for wishing me luck, Sarahsmith. What did you mean by "Oh what a sin!" though? That left me confused. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Too much anxiety |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2017, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 9
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| Had a terrible day at college today. I broke down and started crying and rocking in public because I was so overwhelmed by all the people and it felt like everyone was staring at me. I was too anxious to go to my next class because I was still crying and shaking so I went to my car and vomited in it... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to manage violent meltdowns? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 05 May 2017, 11:54 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 575
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| Somebody a few days ago fixed broken glass in a door I slammed. When I think back about the reason for my explosion it does not seem anywhere near the level to justify such a reaction. My father was the same way. There are certainly many who would like some help with this. Anger issues run in my fa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to manage violent meltdowns? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 05 May 2017, 10:02 am
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Replies: 2
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| When I have meltdowns I get so angry over one little thing and I lose control and go crazy. I scream I hit things I break things I punch things I smash my head on walls so hard I think I just gave myself even more brain damage. It's like i'm a freaking child. Does anyone know how to cope with violen... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do strangers likes you? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 04 May 2017, 8:00 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 564
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| It's very weird. Everyone seems to completely love me or hate me. Most strangers I meet say i'm very polite but at the same time some say I am very rude. It's a mixed bag on how I feel that day I guess. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is my friend being creepy or is he just very friendly? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 7:52 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 501
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| It's not normal. Teachers generally don't keep in contact with their students, especially that intimately. Taking you out fishing a lot is a bad sign too. You're only 19 and barely into adulthood, so you would still look young. It doesn't matter to him that you're no longer a student. It's creepy. ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Got Anything Random To Say |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 1:17 pm
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Replies: 121,766
Views: 4,325,255
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| Shrimp flavored crackers are apparently a thing and they are pretty tasty. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is my friend being creepy or is he just very friendly? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 11:25 am
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Replies: 8
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| Hello, after I graduated from high school I kept in contact with a former teacher on Facebook. He's a nice guy and I was a good student in his class so he wanted to know what I've been up to. He's been helping me a lot by editing my creative writing works and giving me advice and encouraging me to d... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: My approach-approach conflict... |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 11:15 am
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Replies: 3
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| I think you should go with second one in my opinion. It sounds like you'd enjoy it more. If the salary is decent and enough to live comfortably on and still enjoy your job that sounds like the better choice. If you've had your eyes on it for awhile it seems to me like you think it'd be better for yo... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What are you drinking right now? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 11:09 am
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Replies: 10,009
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Say something positive about yourself. |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 11:07 am
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Replies: 2,644
Views: 295,633
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| I'm creative and can always come up with new ideas |
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