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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Currently taking 200mg of Depakene R once a day?

Posted: 04 Nov 2016, 6:11 am 

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So I realize this is mainly a forum for people with asperger's and autism, but I thought that I would ask on here anyway for more possible insight. I have never been diagnosed with asperger's but I might have it. I have been diagnosed with manic depression and social anxiety. There is a chance I mig...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I'm terrified of intimacy?

Posted: 20 Apr 2016, 10:55 pm 

Replies: 34
Views: 1,845


I think, like others have said, the way you notify the woman of your intentions comes off as entitled and presumptive. and in addition to being controlling, the "this is what i want to happen" approach is clunky and lacks finesse. however, i think there is validity in wanting your date to...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I'm terrified of intimacy?

Posted: 20 Apr 2016, 10:51 pm 

Replies: 34
Views: 1,845


I think, like others have said, the way you notify the woman of your intentions comes off as entitled and presumptive. and in addition to being controlling, the "this is what i want to happen" approach is clunky and lacks finesse. however, i think there is validity in wanting your date to...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I'm terrified of intimacy?

Posted: 18 Apr 2016, 12:40 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 1,845


I know this approach is pretty alpha and too forward, but it does work with certain women. Last night, I started flirting with a woman on the street, but this time I made sure she was single and didn't put my arm around her until she was showing signs of interest. We ended up making out and doing mo...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 15 Apr 2016, 2:46 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


I have dated girls from Asian cultures (Indonesians/Filipino)....one thing common thing they have is the 'not playing it easy', - those are raised in eastern cultures where "slut-shaming" mentality is a real social problem(coming from men and women alike), meaning that they likely to be a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Fighting off self doubt before a date?

Posted: 15 Apr 2016, 2:42 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 648


hurtloam wrote:
Do you feel the same way when you have a job interview? A date is like a relationship interview. It's normal to be a bit nervous.


It is nothing like that. The nervousness is a lot more intense. I'm actually barely nervous before job interviews.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Fighting off self doubt before a date?

Posted: 15 Apr 2016, 1:36 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 648


I notice that I often have constant thoughts of self doubt, although I don't fear being rejected? Could it be that I actually fear commitment and that I'm subconsciously self-sabotaging myself? I know my self worth and I have confidence, yet sometimes I will feel strange and different from usual whe...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I'm terrified of intimacy?

 Post subject: I'm terrified of intimacy?
Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 11:11 pm 

Replies: 34
Views: 1,845


So I have a date set up for tonight. I emailed the woman and let her know my intentions. She knows that I don't want to just be friends and that if we meet, I want to kiss and hug her. I mentioned that I would take it slow as in slow paced, not slow as in we will just talk for the first date and may...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 7:42 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


Neo. I think you were like "Wanna go out on a date with me?" a question to which the girl who wanna play hard to get may respond with "maybe"(it could be yes or no, according to the girls' opinions in that other forum). What to do instead: If you know what are her interests, sea...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 7:40 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


It could be as simple as sending too many text messages or calling too much and coming across as too keen, Do you think this may have happened red pill? Nope, I only messaged her a couple times in the passed week or so. It isn't that. I think she is just shy and feels intimidated by me proposing in...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:38 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


AspieOtaku wrote:
If she finds out your autistic, she will flake out faster.


That is the only thing that makes sense. Even if she doesn't know what autism is, she might pick up on the strange vibes I give off subconsciously...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:37 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Is she the same one that you've put your arm around her while thinking that she likes you?


Nope, completely different woman. This woman has given me at least a dozen obvious signs of attraction.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: So... ummm... Yeah... my best friend was murdered...

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:28 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,523


I'm so sorry to hear that. That is the most depressing thing I have read in a while. I hope that you find out who did this s**t and bring them to justice!

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:26 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,818


There is a woman that really likes me a lot. She hits on me all the time. I gave her my email and she was so happy. She always smiles and emailed me saying she was so happy to meet me and would love to meet up sometime. She even told me that my voice is so sexy last week. I emailed her recently abou...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: The conversations I have with people are one-sided and weird

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:22 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 1,006


It probably is because you aren't really giving them a proper chance to start talking about themselves, they are asking questions to try to engage you in the conversation as they would do with anyone but you are not doing the same to engage them. Neurotipicals generally won't start talking about th...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: The conversations I have with people are one-sided and weird

Posted: 14 Apr 2016, 9:19 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 1,006


A lot of people act really uncomfortable and serious around me like they are creeped out by me or something. Then at the same time they act very friendly towards other people. I think part the reason why they treat me this way is because I'm quiet, but I don't think that it's the only reason. I als...
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