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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any dating sites that are great? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2020, 7:21 am
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Replies: 12
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old_comedywriter wrote: georgethekid wrote: Are there any dating sites that are great? No.
I'm afraid it's true |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers and BPD relationships? |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2019, 6:53 am
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Replies: 7
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| This is actually pretty interesting. My coworker has BPD, and he is one of the few people I talk to. He ended up negative splitting me before he left for a Military Deployment. I think it comes down to people with BPD have a very black and white view of people being friends or enemies. When you are... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers and BPD relationships? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2019, 9:02 pm
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Replies: 7
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| The only guys I get talking to and have mutual interest with each other seem to be guys with BPD. Then when I find out I'm just thinking "Urgh not again" Since I always get manipulated and dumped by them. Anyone else on the spectrum find this? |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: As a gay guy, do you prefer taller men? |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2019, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 12
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| For me personally, a guy doesn't have to be taller than me for me to like him but it is a bonus. I'm 6 feet but wish I was a few inches shorter. I know that most guys who are under 6 feet wish they were my height or taller. I really get turned on by guys who are taller than me because I like to fee... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Most people with autism don't crave social interaction" |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2019, 12:15 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 1,479
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| Social Interaction? I'd quite often like more of that. What I don't crave? People taking my neutral observations as value judgements. People lacking patience when I'm slow to respond. People taking my questions asked out of genuine curiosity or confusion as indicating an opinion. Being expected to ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Most people with autism don't crave social interaction" |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2019, 8:08 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 1,479
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I heard this quote from my autism specialist counsellor. I think it's utter rubbish. She also told me that she couldn't help me in life even though i'm stuck without a job and friends. I'm thinking she is a terrible counsellor?   |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My life. Wonder if anyone can relate? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2019, 9:27 pm
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Replies: 4
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| I now have a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder but the UK government won't do anything to help me through life. They expect me to get and keep a job on my own, keep myself happy and motivated in life when I can't make any friends or find any relationship, function fine in school with absolutely ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Confused about this guy |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2018, 7:18 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 417
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| It's more than platonic. He is pretty shy around sex but I am more so. We still did quite a bit. He put on Grindr he is looking for a boyfriend. I think either he is confused as to what he actually wants or he thinks he can do better than me. I don't think he is trying to convey a message to me I th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Confused about this guy |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2018, 1:58 pm
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| So I met this guy on Grindr twice now for two long dates. We seem to be very similar to each other, both jobless, both have aspergers syndrome and we are both looking for a boyfriend etc. I've only known him a week and I have never been into anyone so quickly before. It just felt right. He is a virg... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I the only "mute" aspie here? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2018, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 777
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| I just want to say you sound exactly like me |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your stims? |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 6:37 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 549
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| Making a sort of gagging noise with my throat, coughing or clearing throat, pacing, rubbing the back of my neck, blowing on my hand then smelling it to see if my breath smells, rubbing the bridge of my nose (at one point I was doing this so much It made a mark and bled. Some others I can't think of ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: DRM and lack of mods |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2018, 3:01 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Wondering who else is put off by DRM on games these days. I think if a game or even just a part of a game can't be played without an internet connection it's completely ruined. Maybe we would want to play it some time in the future? I wait for offline lan server emulation hacks to come out for a gam... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why is meetup.com full of people much older than me? |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 3:09 am
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Replies: 9
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| I've been to many meetups now and all of them are full of 40+ year olds. Where are people in their twenties at? Very occasionally there are girls my age and I make the effort to talk to them but they are usually taken or seem very disinterested and will walk off the moment there is a pause in conver... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This is me |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2018, 12:47 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,182
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| Thanks all for the replies. Interesting about the shirt. I actually just bought the one in the pic as I thought it was the best I had. Slimmer looks better to me if you're losing weight. Also I heard that if you look away from the camera it makes woman want to talk to you more as it's like you aren'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This is me |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2018, 12:33 am
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Replies: 16
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| https://scontent-lht6-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/39169715_1886164554778630_8497600959868829696_n.jpg?_nc_cat=0&oh=45265c1d3032208850c4df65e0e25f93&oe=5BFC407A Girls barely reply to me on dating sites and I get no tinder matches. How bad am I? What can I do to improve myself? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rant about being single |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2018, 6:23 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 2,949
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| In that case, maybe all the lonely single Aspie guys should make a bigger effort to meet ladies on the spectrum. Just a thought. That is what I concluded at one point. The only real aspie dating site i've found is spectrumsingles. Unfortunately there are only two woman on it in my area and they bot... |
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