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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which traits do girls find attractive in guys? |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2018, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 2,331
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| It’s actually unbelievably simple. I hate to act like I know a secret or that I’m pushing my way of thinking, but seriously, man, it’s simple. Do this one thing and you’re essentially doing all the heavy lifting in attracting a woman’s interest- have confidence. Now of course that means doing many t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: More harder for high function autistic females? |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,203
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| The good news is is that if you're a woman, you automatically have an advantage. People will just go up and speak with you, seeing as women are more shy and men are expected to be more outgoing. That's how my Autistic mother had relationships, and she admits that. Autistic men don't have the same lu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: maybe people shouldn't date... |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 71
Views: 5,142
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| I only blame myself for being alone. I'm just too awkward and anti-social to be in a successful relationship, let alone have friends. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Positivity thead again |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 11:47 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,292
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| I really hate to be a downer but you actually have a favorite person. I don't, so its hard to relate for me. In fact, someone in my family that was close to me died last night. Its really damn hard to be optimistic when everything's going to s**t. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I wanna do things with people, but hate socializing to do it |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,365
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| I get worn out being social with friends & people in general & want to be left alone. I never even liked being social with my family but I had a high desire for a romantic relationship when I was single & I love spending time with my girlfriend. She's the one person I feel I can be my t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I want to get a rough idea... Aspie males please enter! |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2017, 3:19 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 7,885
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| 20 year old college student, been single my entire life. No girlfriends, ever, almost no friends in general. From my personal view: Society in general is brutal to those who dare to be different. It's far from just women- I have just as little luck befriending men as I do with finding a partner in a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do guys look for in a woman? |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2017, 2:15 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 3,847
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| If you're an Aspie (and me especially), a pulse. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you discolse your disibility on dating profiles? |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2017, 2:04 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 932
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| Just don't. Every person I've told except one (of whom we have no romantic interest with each other) ghosted me afterwards. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men give no clues |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2017, 6:42 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 1,980
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| I've noticed men commenting that women only seem to give really subtle clues that men miss. From a woman's perspective men seem to do the same. Why is it always me who has to make the first move. I always feel like I'm jumping blindly into the dark. I'm always told to make it more obvious. But why ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone else hate dating? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2017, 6:34 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,839
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| Well, one thing I CAN tell you is to not get mad at them. They don't like you personally and you just have to accept that. They just feel that way and there isn't anything you or them could to about it. In your defense, however, I am in the exact same boat. No relationships my entire life, and only ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I wanna do things with people, but hate socializing to do it |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2017, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,365
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| I'm not following the change your expectations part. I just try to 'work' on myself, it's almost all I do and think about so maybe one day I'll worthy of being somebody's friend or whatever. I don't see myself ever just doing things on my own for fun, it makes me feel worse trying to rationalize it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I wanna do things with people, but hate socializing to do it |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2017, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,365
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| Its so damn draining to my "social batteries" to just hang out for a few hours with one person. It feels like relationships of any kind are impossible to me because normal people just want to talk daily, even hourly. I can't fathom doing that, it would drive me insane You could also try v... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I wanna do things with people, but hate socializing to do it |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2017, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,365
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| Hey guys, so I'm facing a bit of a dilemma here. There are so many things I wanna do with people, like museums, parks, etc. Whenever I go alone it feels like something is missing, and I know its friends. But I HATE socializing. But I understand that's how I get to do stuff like that. For example. th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT here asking ASPIES: What do you think about Valentine's ? |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2017, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,510
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| It's an alright holiday. Its fine to show affection to the one you love. But it always made me feel alone, been single my entire life so it stings a bit to see others getting to experience it at least once. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What would dating be like if aspies invented it? |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2017, 7:08 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,806
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| It'd be a hell of a lot better, that's for sure. We would look past weird quirks and see what's in someone's heart, and in general Autistic people can be quite attractive anyways. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A woman showed possible interest in me, and I got scared. :( |
| Galymcd |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2017, 6:59 pm
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Replies: 57
Views: 3,014
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| It's frankly completely normal to be scared if you've rarely, if ever, experienced it. I would react the exact same way seeing as no woman has ever taken a serious interest in me, and I'm 20. |
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