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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How does one with Aspergers fight Internet Addiction? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 30 May 2016, 10:07 am
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Hi. I have a lot of experience with addiction/obsessive behaviours and also anxiety and fear. It seems to me that your biggest issue is maybe not so much internet addiction as it is fear of the outside world. In my experience the only way to deal with any fear is to expose myself to what it is I’m a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism in love |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 30 May 2016, 9:35 am
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That's funny, because I never met anybody else who was like that until now. People here are often talking about new shows or movies. And they are always things that I don't watch. I am really very stubborn when it comes to stuff like that. I have a whole list of types of things that I just refuse t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What symtoms of Autism do you still have? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 22 May 2016, 5:33 pm
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I've only recently self diagnosed myself so still discovering what's what... I identify massively with much of the criteria; most notably the social difficulties and the reciprocation issues. I watch the way others interact and naturally socialise and chat with each other (and seem to want to rather... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You're not autistic! |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 22 May 2016, 5:11 pm
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Replies: 56 Views: 6,112
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Dillogic wrote: If you run into people in the first place, and you get a conversation going and share that you have autism with said people, you:
probably don't have autism
I think it's very dangerous to make such a generalistion  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is nonverbal communication all intuitive? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 21 May 2016, 3:50 pm
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Replies: 4 Views: 749
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Haha... I really struggle with this but hadn't cottoned on until recently. When someone smiles at me it seems I have to notice the smile, process it, think "They're smiling at me; better smile back". By the time that laborious process is through with the other person thinks either I don't ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I am in such a mess and don't know what to do. |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 04 May 2016, 5:08 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 1,168
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Hi, I’m not really qualified to give any advice but I can share my own experience. I used to walk out of jobs all the time. The ‘noise’ of my own thoughts and feelings in my head would become overwhelming and I’d run. I’d leave wherever I was and I’d seek refuge in some behaviour or another; alcohol... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: People say I'm quiet and hard to get to know |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 8:03 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,098
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I can relate to what’s being said. I’ve been described as a “closed book” and “difficult to get to know”. I don’t understand why, but I’m aware from other people’s view that this is reality. It seems I communicate differently from ‘normal’ people and ‘normal’ people don’t quite get me, just as I don... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does anyone else not actually want a relationship? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 7:15 am
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Replies: 23 Views: 1,170
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I’ve never been in a proper relationship. I attracted many young ladies when I was younger but I seemed to back away at the moment it was to become a relationship, and I never understood why. Now? I can’t imagine myself in a relationship. I don’t think I’m capable of forming a relationship with some... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: To diagnose or not to diagnose? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 11:49 am
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Replies: 56 Views: 1,814
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Hi, I can really identify with the things you’re saying, and I’m currently seeking a diagnosis myself. I too recognise that in some respects it makes no difference. I am who I am and have to accept myself as I am regardless of what names I do or don’t put to it. But then I’d like to understand mysel... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What should I do? |
PercyPJ |
Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 8:33 am
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Replies: 10 Views: 477
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Hi, I'm not qualified to give you any advice but I can relate some of my own experience, and this may help. I’ve struggled massively with life; never felt I’ve fitted in, always felt that ‘something is missing’ and feel as if the rest of the population was given a manual at birth on how to live life... |
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