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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Look what found Aspie/ADHD gay relationship :-) |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 1:42 pm
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actually i would like to have a homoerotic relationship with another aspie :D the dynamics would be different from aspie-normie dating and maybe it would be for the best... you know, the similarities and insight... almost every person i met who is or may be on the spectrum doesnt really care about w... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: I'm not good at anything. |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 3 Views: 673
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If you like writing, write and write and write and don't let anyone stop you. Majority of people will never be succesful at anything in their lives but that doesn't mean they can't be great people. Maybe they will be nice, have lot of friends, bake good pies or whatever small thing you can think of.... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Wearing makeup |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 794
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just stop tucking your shirt into your pants :D sorry, really bad joke but hey, sometimes people do that Why is that bad again? I did that as a child and my mom got mad, telling me not to do it and these days I don't, but I still don't know what her problem was. Well, at certain age it becomes &quo... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: TV characters confirmed to have Aspergers |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 22 Views: 4,177
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Sheldon and Amy from The Big Bang Theory and Nepeta Leijon from Homestuck. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Never thought I had a problem with labels/tags |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 4 Views: 313
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Just cut it off whole, undo the seam, take the tag off and then fix the seam again. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ASD and Summer Camps |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 12:54 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 1,109
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As a kid at summer camp I was always the loner, without friends, reading in the cabin while the others were having fun around campfire. All school trips were the same for me, even the highschool ones. Once I fell asleep in my cabin and noone noticednot even the girls who lived with me...even if they... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: flapping my arms |
Laki |
Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 12:27 pm
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Replies: 1 Views: 267
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In the last few months I've gone through some stressful episodes (breakup, depression, no life goals, moved to campus, currently stressing about exams etc.) and can see some mental difficulties taking on. I'm too lazy and shy to go see a doctor but I've started rocking, shaking and flapping my arms.... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Wearing makeup |
Laki |
Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 12:45 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 794
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Make-up might make you seem more "normal", but it is just a small chance - you might as well get bullied more. Also (at least what I think) it's too much work... maybe just groomed eyebrows and mascara and/or eyeliner and lipgloss... But if the people around you are little s**ts there's no... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anybody here who doesn't have autism? |
Laki |
Posted: 22 Aug 2017, 5:55 am
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Replies: 31 Views: 1,418
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Well... it's possible that you are on the spectrum, but with just mild form of Aspergers or something like that, but I'm sure that there are normal people here - like parents, friends or siblings who want to know more and help or understand... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: am i missing out not having sex? |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 4:41 pm
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Replies: 5 Views: 1,437
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Well.... no. Of course it depends on the person you are with. Sex itself is quite gross, orgasm is quite pleasurable but only for a second. If you consider it just the physical act you are not missing out. There are people who are adventurous, people who live for the thrills and people who just real... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Physical Contact |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 1 Views: 761
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Hi, I saw there were no replies ... hope you found your answers... it may be a little late, but yes, it is quite common to not desire any physical contact. Good way to cope with this may be occasional touching with a person you really trust - from sitting close or tap on hand when excited to light h... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Personal space |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 4:19 pm
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Replies: 2 Views: 773
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Agree, he's a dick. But, talking as a person who likes big personal space, you should not feel the other persons breath. Had a classmate who used to sit a bit too close and it really is nothing pleasurable. But like too much close, sometimes even touching, his breathing in your ear, ew! And he was a... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Media representation of women |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 4:03 pm
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Replies: 7 Views: 1,017
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Oh. Yeah. Why is creating a character so dependent on male viewers? Why can't we have an interesting woman characters with the redundant eyecandy who unnecessary strips and showers in slow-motion and loses shirts and is giggly and dumb being male? Like, I would actually pay to watch this. There is n... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Any advice for sharing personal information |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,154
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Oh yeah. I feel you. I overshare as a filler of awkward silence, making it way worse and making the other person uncomfortable... Although I'm not capable of following the advice, my friend tried to teach me - the key is sharing a little bit about yourself and then asking the other person a topic re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breaking Up (and staying friends) |
Laki |
Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 3 Views: 544
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((sorry for long answer without any answers and with possible mistakes)) Actually, I have the same problem. Awesome girl, six years of friendship, year and half of relationship. She ended it because I can't support her, am not empathic, too selfish and self-centered... She has difficult time in her ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: girlfriend breaking up with me |
Laki |
Posted: 19 May 2016, 6:42 am
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Replies: 4 Views: 335
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Few months ago me and my best friend (who I know for almost 7 years) started going out. Everything seemed fine, she knows I'm a little awkward, shy and all that (I have always thought I'm just introverted and socially awkward but apparently I was diagnosed with mild AS when I was little and just did... |
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