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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2020, 8:10 pm
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| Sorry it's not working / didn't work. I was not in a place to make my relationship with my first love work (or he wasn't). I made it work with my second (and he did). Wishing you well for this transition. Nah. It's no huge deal. I'm rational, and try to look ahead. I have no regrets really. It was ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2020, 7:02 pm
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| This is getting nowhere now. I guess I shouldn't be in contact with her but I sent her an email asking what to do with all her ...things... that are in my apartment. She said (a few days ago) that I should just throw it in the trash. I asked if she wanted to pick it up etc. She probably needs a lot ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2020, 6:45 pm
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cberg wrote: Well I probably have both per se & it hasn't been easy for me.
How so? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2020, 6:45 pm
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| Based on the title I was going to respond that ASD and PTSD are often together ... in one person. If you do not have PTSD, coolio (my compliments to your childhood environment). My NT husband has triggers (PTSD?), I (ASD) have triggers (PTSD?). My mom did, my dad does... somehow we are all in commi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2020, 3:50 pm
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| Why stay in a relationship with someone one is not comfortable with? I mean, when both parties are comfortable meeting each other once a month, great, but if comfort zones of two people have not much in common, why stay? That's a good point, but I guess you could compromise on this, somehow. Isn't ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2020, 3:43 pm
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| I'm autistic and I have CPTSD. My boyfriend of three months has PTSD but is otherwise neurotypical. We are learning each other's triggers. We both like a lot of alone time, generally a week between visits. I'm not seeing him at all during this virus situation. So yes, it can definitely work if you ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2020, 3:33 pm
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| That does sound very difficult for both of you. :heart: Thanks! :heart: It is difficult, indeed. I am in a good period of my life where I'm sort of getting myself together for the first time in my life, perhaps. I did some really serious changes of/in my life last year and it was though, but I may ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's syndrome + PTSD = bad combo? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2020, 2:41 pm
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| Howdy folks, I'm not sure what the current status in my relationship is. It has been on and off (for four months since we met), and it's probably off now. With my girlfriend. First of all: in general, I don't want to have a relationship at all, more or less. And it's not a huge "issue" in ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| kristallen |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2019, 12:07 am
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| No song at all. My friend K. made me appreciate silence. Something I couldnt' stand before. |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Looking for developers for work |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2019, 9:53 am
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| Howdy, I'm currently looking for mainly a Python/Django-developer, but possibly a .NET-developer as well. Our company is located in Stockholm, Sweden. But working from abroad is no problem if you know your ...stuff... I can't spend any time tutoring anyone now, sorry. This would be a part-time work.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dealing with ADHD/Bipolarity |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 6:33 pm
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| I'm having *major* problems dealing with a person that has very, very intense ADHD and is Bipolar (2). He's on medication. A LOT of medication. Seven different medications, I can't remember all of them. I have only known him for about four months, but I believe he's manic or semi-manic at the moment... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Pinball! Pinball! Pinball! |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2019, 1:41 pm
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| I used to love pinball. Some of my favorites were: Funhouse Heavy Metal Meltdown Circus Terminator Adams Family So many more that I can't recall now. FunHouse ...is awesome. One of the machines I really learned how to play on. Heavy Metal Meltdown I can't recall the details, but I played it when I ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Pinball! Pinball! Pinball! |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2019, 2:15 am
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| Are there any pinball players here? I guess I could write a couple of thousand lines on pinball here and now, but I'll leave that to ...some... ...other... time. The pinball "scene" is sort of alive and kicking these days. The biggest tournament in the world is going on at the moment: http... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Song you're obsessed with |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2019, 2:10 am
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This song took me out of a really bad depression once. When I heard it my head said "click": the world is not so bad after all! |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Wrongplanet Musicians' Showcase |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2019, 10:18 pm
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A track I made the day before christmas a few years ago. Unfortunately the bible reading (it's not me, found it online) is in Swedish. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I'm new - Skål from Sweden |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2019, 3:44 am
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Replies: 21
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| Howdy! Yep. Full time work is no more, ever. However, I always spend quite a bit of time doing unpaid "work" in my spare time, but it gives me more energy than it takes. These days I, sort of, know how to limit the time and energy I spend in these unpaid "projects". I didn't back... |
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