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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coming out to other half |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 28 Jul 2016, 5:29 am
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I am not diagnosed but am sure I'm an aspie and realised this after the birth of my son. I have been with my partner for three years and we have a one year old. I'm terrified to tell my partner. I haven't told anyone else either. I feel like there is a stigma and also AS is misunderstood, eg the ide... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: I'm HFA and really terrified at the thought of having kids |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 20 Jul 2016, 4:59 am
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Replies: 31 Views: 3,434
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I have a nearly two year old and didn't realise until after he was born that I am autistic. I don't plan to have another one. I do not regret having him but it has been really hard. Actually I think motherhood in general is a lot harder than our society makes out, especially the first year. New mums... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Should I Tell My Future Boss? |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 19 Jul 2016, 3:53 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 638
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If you were to tell them, I wouldn't do it before your probation period is over. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Motivation |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 19 Jul 2016, 3:37 am
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Replies: 11 Views: 987
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Food wise- never go to the supermarket hungry! Only buy healthy food, then you won't have unhealthy food in the house. Carry healthy snacks with you so you don't get hungry and succumb to unhealthy snacks, and take packed lunches to work. Substitutions- when you crave sugar, eat fruit or dried fruit... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Excercise help |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:58 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 537
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You might think you need to be coordinated to do Zumba but it's all about having fun and moving and not about getting it right so I highly recommend it. So much fun, you don't even realise you're exercising. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Issues with finding good foods |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:54 am
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Replies: 1 Views: 334
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You need to learn to cook. What is it that scares you? I can give you some easy recipes? |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Motivation |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:52 am
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Replies: 11 Views: 987
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When you're fit it's easy to stay fit but when you're not it's hard to get there. Start off small. I find a squat challenge works well. There's a website- 200 squats. You will see gains quickly, which will inspire you. Swimming also will give you results if you push yourself. Reward yourself. A heal... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: How can I gain the weight |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:44 am
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Replies: 20 Views: 2,152
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Agree with the calorie dense foods and weight training. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Most challenging part of the day... |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:30 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 720
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In the late afternoon/ early evening, specifically when I am hungry. And particularly when my toddler is whining. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: How can I prove to my family I can look after the baby |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 4:10 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 1,086
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I am one of those mums who wouldn't let Mary Poppins look after her baby lol. My mother in law is the only person who has. My sister in law has never let us look after her kids either and I'm ok with that though I would love to. When I was growing up I only had one aunt and uncle who looked after us... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Guidance for Learning Programming/Software Engineering |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 3:48 am
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Replies: 16 Views: 1,376
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I'm interested in learning programming and web development. Having realised I'm an aspie I've decided to work with my natural abilities. I'm starting with HTML. Good luck! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: AS and smiling |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 18 Jul 2016, 3:41 am
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Replies: 18 Views: 1,314
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I have Resting b***h Face. I even got a smiley face tattoo to remind myself to smile. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi everyone |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 5:00 am
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Replies: 5 Views: 333
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Thanks for the welcome. I'm doing ok. My interests include: Fitness- helps my mental health as much as anything- swimming, weights, yoga, surfing (badly) Meditation, Buddhism, etc. Music- mainly rock and hip hop, getting back into playing guitar (not very well) Learning languages- Spanish and bits a... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi everyone |
sunnyinaus |
Posted: 09 Jul 2016, 4:19 am
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Replies: 5 Views: 333
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Hi everyone. I haven't been diagnosed but am almost sure I'm an aspie. I haven't told anyone. Actually I think it's highly likely that both of my parents and my brother are too, but I don't think any of them have the insight to realise if I told them. I am looking forward to learning more, and to me... |
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