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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
| drearyday |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2016, 7:34 pm
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| I contacted him and was just honest and explained how I feel, and how it's hurting me to not know what happened. He hasn't responded. Although, after I sent the email, he "liked" and then "unliked" one of my old photos - I guess he accidentally liked it and then went back and unl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
| drearyday |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2016, 12:01 pm
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| But the reason matters...there are many possibilities and I don't know which it is... If he still has feelings for me and wants me, but is pulling back because he is just uncomfortable getting intimate/moving fast, then I would want to see if we can just be friends and take it slower with no pressur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2016, 4:12 pm
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| If you meet someone online in the future, be sure to meet them within a month of initial contact. I met my current girlfriend a few weeks after I talked to her online. If a person doesn't show clear intention without a couple of weeks, it is best to move on. If you have suspicions that someone onli... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2016, 9:23 am
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Replies: 20
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| If anyone has insight please share, I am really hurt that he doesn't think there is long term potential with me because it feels like he thinks I am not good enough for gf status, and there is something he dislikes in me, some flaw he found in me. I am also really worried about why he changed his mi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2016, 5:33 pm
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| What's a causal thing? I thought it was code for sex only but you two haven't met. 0.o I see that as option in people's profiles a lot Were you two lmg distance? I've only had games played with my heart long distance. Wish I could find a girl like you. Thanks for the compliment :) Nd I really don't... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2016, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 20
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| this person responded by saying there is no long term potential, and that would be fine if it were a casual fling, but they thought I wanted more than that. this is confusing to me because it doesn't explain what changed..why did they want to meet before? -did they not realize there was no potential... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2016, 1:49 pm
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Replies: 20
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| Regardless of his reasons, it seems like he isn't willing to meet you in person....it's a shame, since it could very well be related to self esteem that he's passing you up. But I imagine the more you try to contact him at this point the more distant he'll become. its hurting me to not know the rea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2016, 12:32 pm
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| It is pretty definite that he's scared of rejection---that he DID want you. He's probably devastated by rejection, and has been rejected so many times in his life. He doesn't want this to be "the straw that broke the camel's back," so to speak. Thank you for this response. Is there any re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2016, 12:27 pm
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| Yes, this person has a low self esteem, from what I can tell. He has always hard a hard time making friends with other males, and as for females he said he was practically incapable of making female friends until recently. He also seems to be insecure about his intelligence because he said he is not... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: can't make sense of what this means |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2016, 1:31 pm
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| I posted a thread a while back about a situation with a guy on the spectrum: in a nutshell, we liked each other for a year, have been desperately waiting to finally meet in person, and then he got distant and stopped talking to me. recently, he gave somewhat of an explanation of why he is avoiding m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: please help ;( |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2016, 10:35 am
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Replies: 6
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| So, I apologized for that conversation and said we don't have to talk about that stuff if he doesn't like it. He said it is fine, it's just that it is mentally draining sometimes. I said I understand and I'll keep that in mind from now on. if he's anything like me, then the explanation is right the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: please help ;( |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2016, 4:24 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I have been talking to someone on the spectrum online for 6 months now. We talked almost every day and flirted and really liked each other. We were both similar to each other in ways that are rare to find in other people, so we really thought each other was special. We had planned to meet in person ... |
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