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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opening lines of communication with Aspie boyfriend? |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2016, 6:50 am
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| That is hard to say without personally knowing him. Maybe you could tell us a little more about his personality and his functionality to give us a better understanding of him. Like I said before though, the signs seem to point to him being a very immature aspie that still has a lot of growing up to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opening lines of communication with Aspie boyfriend? |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2016, 4:34 am
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| I am sorry, I don't want to sound harsh, but from what you've said you guys just don't sound very compatible with each other and he sounds like he has more growing up to do before he even tries to be in a relationship. I can see this situation from both sides. Yes it is true, aspies benefit from th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opening lines of communication with Aspie boyfriend? |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2016, 1:52 am
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| I am an NT woman, and my boyfriend is an aspie. We've been together almost a year and I love him with all my heart, but I can't lie, sometimes that man drives me crazy. He almost always refuses to communicate. We never discuss our problems unless I force him to talk about it with me and thats never ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2016, 11:28 am
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Replies: 24
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| Thank you everyone for your advice. I really appreciate all the different viewpoints. I'm just going to have to learn to respect this alone time and empathize a little bit more about the computer. I know that I can't change him, and honestly I don't want to. I love him how he is regardless. Yesterda... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Can you miss someone you love and are in a happy relationship with but still want to be away from them? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 5:11 pm
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| If you've met one Aspie, you've met one Aspie. Just like Neurotipicals, Aspies are also each different. Some may need more space than others, and some may be more clingy than others. It may also depend on high stress leverls too. Some prefer alone time during these periods of high stress levels. If... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 11:32 am
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| My dad has undiagnosed autism and he snaps at people like that often (his wife of 35 years) but he doesn't mean most of what he is saying. I do this as well...maybe more but I just feel guilty and stupid about it later. Anyways...sometimes you just can't take what we say too seriously unless we are... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 11:31 am
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| If you've met one Aspie, you've met one Aspie. Just like Neurotipicals, Aspies are also each different. Some may need more space than others, and some may be more clingy than others. It may also depend on high stress leverls too. Some prefer alone time during these periods of high stress levels. If... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 11:28 am
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| hmm I cannot really understand that even though I have aspergers, I couldn't be in a relationship with someone like that..it would be hard for me to go a full day let alone multiple days without seeing or hearing from my boyfriend, it would be like constantly being ghosted. Either way doesn't seem ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2016, 11:20 am
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| Sometimes spies do want more alone time than NT's. How does he have the time to play computer games so much, like through the night and into the next afternoon? Does he have a job or are still in school? You know, it depends. I dated someone a few years ago but the problem is that she lived too far... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2016, 6:25 pm
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| Wish I could, but I've never had a relationship, also spies are different person to person. Closest I had was a week where a girl stayed with me, and it did start to get irritating, but we spent the whole time together and watched movies. I didn't get to do any of the things I'd normally do. I don'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2016, 6:23 pm
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| Sometimes spies do want more alone time than NT's. How does he have the time to play computer games so much, like through the night and into the next afternoon? Does he have a job or are still in school? You know, it depends. I dated someone a few years ago but the problem is that she lived too far... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2016, 2:07 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand my boyfriend with aspergers |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2016, 5:00 pm
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| I have been dating a wonderful guy with Aspergers for about a year now and normally everything is great. I love him to death and i'd do literally anything for him But sometimes its really hard for me to understand him and what he's thinking or feeling. He won't tell me, he never really wants to talk... |
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