| Author |
Message |
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 10:53 pm
|
|
Replies: 483
Views: 21,323
|
Barchan wrote: MushroomPrincess wrote: I'd hate to see your browser history.  Can we get an "oh snap" here? 
Oh snap  |
|
 |
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 10:25 pm
|
|
Replies: 483
Views: 21,323
|
| As for the BMI, mine is 20.2 and I'm considered a fatty :heart: Which was also the case when my BMI was 14.8 (underweight/anorexia). No. You're not considered to be a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 20.2 is thin, not a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 14.8 is severely underweight, not a fatty. The majori... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 1:45 pm
|
|
Replies: 483
Views: 21,323
|
^ +1
And Boo chillax bro
Was talking only about my irl experience.
Worked w Aspies irl for a long time and met new ones via my husband and my son's school.
Never met anyone from wp irl. |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 11:54 am
|
|
Replies: 483
Views: 21,323
|
| Like I'd rather be with a fat person than someone who is rude, vindictive, a cheater, a golddigger, insensitive etc etc the list goes on I don't think that a fat person is less likely to be rude, vindictive, a cheater, a golddigger, insensitive etc. How can you see any of these if you use online da... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 6:51 am
|
|
Replies: 483
Views: 21,323
|
| Might have missed this but how do you guys define 'fat'? Where I live most women are extremely tall and slender. I am average by my family genetic pool and size medium. But I am a curvy lady with a booty ;) which is not at all common in this country but very normal where I come from. Still I have be... |
|
|
Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism camouflaging and late diagnosis |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 24 Feb 2017, 5:51 pm
|
|
Replies: 55
Views: 3,387
|
| So my question is what is the difference between NTs and ASD people mimicking? IME: the amount of energy it costs. For me (ASD) is exhausting. The rewards of social acceptance are way smaller than the price. I prefer authenticity over 'fitting in' and 'being normal'. Maybe for NT's the rewards are ... |
|
|
Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What does a meltdown look like in an adult woman? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 24 Feb 2017, 5:41 pm
|
|
Replies: 67
Views: 12,292
|
| Hi everyone! My parents only told me last month that I had been diagnosed with Aspergers when I was a child, and have been doing some research on it since then. The reason why I want to know about the meltdowns is because I've noticed that I'm prone to have uncontrollable "crying fits" wh... |
|
|
Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I want new friends on WP |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 24 Feb 2017, 5:28 pm
|
|
Replies: 11
Views: 1,014
|
silly man  you've got a PM (struggled w some technical issues so I couldn't log in... |
|
|
Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I want new friends on WP |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 21 Feb 2017, 3:41 am
|
|
Replies: 11
Views: 1,014
|
| Me too just drop a PM if you'd like |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is There Such Thing as a Practice Relationship? |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 20 Feb 2017, 5:11 am
|
|
Replies: 20
Views: 1,127
|
| I worked on this a little bit, where I tried to convince myself that I deserved good love. It did help a little, but at some point it seemed that there was another reason I would shut down when someone liked me, and that does turn out to be an autistic trait from what I have read. There's only so m... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 20 Feb 2017, 5:04 am
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
| Personal hygiene is a fine self-care skill. You might be one of the lucky ones that either was taught that or enjoy the biopsychosocial privilege to know how. That means I'm privileged? Awesome! I love being privileged! That was no compliment :lol: I meant privilege like this: https://en.wikipedia... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 20 Feb 2017, 4:49 am
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
| Same. I learn slow too. I'm behind but I feel like it's impossible to catch up while going at half speed. As I get older I get further and further behind my peers. I so get that! And I am much older than you :lol: What I have learned: letting go of comparing myself to others is another crucial step... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 19 Feb 2017, 5:10 pm
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
| I didn't learn the necessity of it until way too late. As long as you live you can learn. being slow to learn, it comes a LOT harder. same for retaining what has been learnt. I totally get that, happens to me too. It sucks. Still even very very slow learning is still learning ;) One should dare to ... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 19 Feb 2017, 4:44 pm
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
| It would be great if a teacher would show everyone all the ways a girl throws hints that she is interested. And how reciprocation is done. That sounds like a tall order. Even if you can read the hints, there are so many ways one can reciprocate. Some ways could be a fit with you and others won't be... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 19 Feb 2017, 4:35 pm
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
| It should be a part of sex-ed. A few years ago I took a night class on dating for ASD men and they didn't teach any of that stuff HelloSweetie mentioned. Instead they "taught" insultingly obvious stuff like "have a shower and wash your hair before your date" :roll: Not to sound ... |
|
|
Forum: Love and Dating Topic: there is not someone for everyone |
| HelloSweetie |
|
Posted: 19 Feb 2017, 4:20 pm
|
|
Replies: 140
Views: 7,483
|
auntblabby wrote: I didn't learn the necessity of it until way too late.
As long as you live you can learn. |
|
|
| Sort by: |
