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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do you consider sex? |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2017, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 13
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neurotypicalET wrote: If it involves at least two willing participants and ends with sexual gratification for all parties involved, that is sex. The details don't really matter that much.
Agreed! |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: FTM Chest Reduction |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2017, 8:49 pm
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| Are you having a reduction or complete mastectomy? I'm diagnosed with autism and the GIC had no issue with referring me for chest surgery. I had double mastectomy 2 months ago. I don't know if they would be keen to refer for just a reduction on the NHS through the GIC and you may have to pay out of ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do you consider sex? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2017, 6:26 am
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Replies: 13
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RandomFox wrote: For me sex is anything that involves genital stimulation, done by another person, also by hand, mouth, toys...
^ This. My same opinion. I don't consider sex ONLY PIV sex, or only when an orgasm has occured. Sex is ANY genital stimulation for me. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: This is perverse, but here goes. |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2017, 5:57 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,067
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| OK, I should probably start thinking about healthy boundaries to have. I got contacted by a few men there who are aroused by the thought of a bearish little. I should not let my hormones do my thinking for me here. I want a relationship, but my hormones want a string of friends with benefits. It is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2017, 8:33 am
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Views: 1,473,094
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| I'm (trans) male, 26, from South East England. He/him. I'm genderfluid but I present mostly just as a simple guy. I have had chest surgery. I don't plan on having any other surgeries. Bi/Pan/Queer. I live alone with no pets (but I'd love to have a dog if I could). I'm a college student still trying ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: This is perverse, but here goes. |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2017, 5:51 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,067
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| I have explored Fetlife in the past. But some things I would rather explore after trust has been established with a partner. I already had one hookup experience, and it felt like work because I felt no connection with the other guy. What I want is a monogamous relationship, not another string of on... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Why is everything a hookup? |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2017, 4:47 am
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Replies: 9
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| Yeah all the queer places I try are all sex obsessed too. Grindr, Scruff etc. They all just want NSA. No friendships or romance. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Neurontin (gabapentin) for anxiety |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2017, 4:37 am
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Replies: 13
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| I took gabapentin for nerve pain, but I also have depression and anxiety anyway. Gabapentin made me incredibly depressed and suicidal. I was really finding it hard to cope. I didn't understand why I felt so bad. I was taking it for 2 months so the side effects should have gone by then really. I ende... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating a Feminist (...and I still paid the whole bill) |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2017, 4:30 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,195
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| Please correct me if I'm wrong, but feminism is about freedom of choice to follow traditional gender norms or not. This woman perhaps prefers traditional courtship and that's fine. Nothing hypocritical about this. So yeah, if you're a guy then it's safer to pay. Even if your date offers to split, y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why You Should Start Caring About How You Look |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2017, 4:16 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,886
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| I agree OP. What I'm attracted to most physically is how someone presents themselves and how hygienic they are. Clothes that are old and tattered or several sizes too small = no from me Clothes that have stains on them from not being washed = no from me Dirty nails and dirty hands because people don... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and gender roles |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2017, 3:29 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 3,084
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| I don't like gender roles even in a straight relationship, because I like everything to be equal. I like them to be equally loving and put in as much effort into the relationship and the things surrounding it as myself. It should be 50/50 of most things if not all in a relationship for me. I need so... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it EVER too late to achieve your dreams? |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2017, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,198
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| It's not always a matter of time, but more someone's background and if they can afford to reach their dreams. There's many factors to consider if someone can go back and try and reach their dreams. Someone like me who is disabled and can't work, I probably will never be able to achieve my dream care... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: This is perverse, but here goes. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2017, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I'll try to keep this PG13+ but it's gonna be hard, so I won't be overly detailed. A lot of people who have had childhood trauma find a BDSM kink called ageplay or CG/L can help them. (CG/L = caregiver/little). People can have their opinions about it, but I know it's very popular in those kinds of s... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Eligible Inclusive Odds! - The LGBT Single Aspies List |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2017, 2:52 pm
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| I guess I'll be the first RIP. I'm not good at writing about myself, so here goes... I'm (trans) male, 26, from South East England. He/him. I'm genderfluid but I present mostly just as a simple guy. I have had chest surgery. I don't plan on having any other surgeries. Bi/Pan/Queer. I live alone with... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating a Feminist (...and I still paid the whole bill) |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2017, 2:28 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,195
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| Choose somewhere where you have to pay at the counter/bar before the food comes out. That way you can both order separately and it'll still come to the same table. If she's still getting you to pay at that point when she has an easy opportunity to organise her purse and make her order and isn't payi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does anybody here desire for intimacy? |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2017, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,986
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| Yes. This is pretty normal and common, whether ND or NT. |
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