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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 20 y/o jobless, female in a homeless shelter |
| Catmagic101a |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 11:50 pm
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| I'm glad, despite being homeless, that you're not in a typical "homeless" sort of situation. I live in NYC; you just might live near NYC. What do you want to study in college? I work in a library at Pace University. Should you happen to get a scholarship to Pace, maybe you can visit me an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 20 y/o jobless, female in a homeless shelter |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 11:39 pm
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| Hello, Cat! Very sorry to hear about your situation. Been homeless, too, living out of a motel room. Not fun, but “this too shall pass.” You will be fine. You have a wide range of interests. Good for you! I’d start narrowing things down and go for excellence in one main area. I’m a musician. For re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 20 y/o jobless, female in a homeless shelter |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2017, 7:52 pm
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| Actually, it's not so bad, we're in an okay room and furthermore, it's actually in an affluent city.They keep the place looking like it's a hotel so it doesn't really 'stand out' in said affluent city where there are a lot of people who probably don't worry about things like money much.Anyway, is it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 20 y/o jobless, female in a homeless shelter |
| Catmagic101a |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2017, 4:41 pm
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| Looking for just someone to talk to who won't be judgemental.Not against things becoming more potentially, I'd be lying if I said I wasn't craving that sort of love at all or anything. I'm a 20 y/o black female who currently resides in a homeless shelter with her mother (I'm still very reliant on he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
| Catmagic101a |
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Posted: 25 Dec 2016, 10:55 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 3,579
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| I told him what I intended for my future but looking back I see how that might not have been sufficient for what a 48 year old wanted in a partner although he was speaking to somebody 18 and still in high school. The last time I tried to chat up an 18 year old she said I was too old for her and I'm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 4:59 pm
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Replies: 62
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| I told him what I intended for my future but looking back I see how that might not have been sufficient for what a 48 year old wanted in a partner although he was speaking to somebody 18 and still in high school. The last time I tried to chat up an 18 year old she said I was too old for her and I'm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 4:57 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 3,579
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| I told him what I intended for my future but looking back I see how that might not have been sufficient for what a 48 year old wanted in a partner although he was speaking to somebody 18 and still in high school. The last time I tried to chat up an 18 year old she said I was too old for her and I'm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 9:09 pm
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Replies: 62
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| Females dont want a guy that have no job/bad job. What is funny is that even if she herself has no job/bad job she still has this demands that males most have a good job. I'm not one of them, any actual feelings of love would make his not having a job or a bad one (whatever that is) irrelevant for ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 9:05 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 3,579
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| I was 18 at the time, I'm 19 now and I was on a dating app once and the exchange I had with a 48 year old with like this. Me:Hi, do you want to chat? 48 year old:Yes Me:Good to hear, so, how has your day been so far? 48 year old:Good 48 year old:What are you here looking for? Me:I'm looking for fri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 8:41 pm
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Replies: 62
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| It's all from the companies if your not a cog in their machine then you're he enemy. So they've tricked generations into seeing people solely as their job title. "Oh you're a fireman" No that's just their job not who they are I'm not a sales associate The general mentality is very cult li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 7:51 pm
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Replies: 62
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| It's all from the companies if your not a cog in their machine then you're he enemy. So they've tricked generations into seeing people solely as their job title. "Oh you're a fireman" No that's just their job not who they are I'm not a sales associate The general mentality is very cult li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 62
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| One of my biggest life regrets was not immediately walking away when I found out my first GF not only didn't have a job but dropped out of school three times (and quickly became a fourth after we dated). She (rightfully) complained I treated her like a child but it was impossible to see her as anyt... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2016, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 62
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| I definitely don't have to worry about any of that right now but I'll keep it all in mind for the future and invest wisely with what I choose to put money towards. But I'm actually an aspiring pop singer, so who knows? I may end up being successful with that and have more than enough money to spend!... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2016, 2:21 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 3,579
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| Avenues for internet voting do exist. I'm not sure about state officials, but online voting for the national presidential election is possible. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2016, 4:16 pm
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Replies: 62
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| Having a job really is that important. Having a job means financial freedom, which means you have more options in dating and long-term. I don't feel it's a dealbreaker for a female partner to not have a job in the short-term. Long-term it means I have to carry the FULL burden of meeting our basic n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is having a job important in a relationship?If so, why? |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2016, 5:05 am
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Replies: 62
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| Personally, I don't have a very materialistic view of love, so I would never reject somebody because they didn't have a job. I wouldn't let a societal thing like that get in the way of any romantic feelings I had, but that's just me and I'm what you could describe as a ''romantic''. |
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