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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've been called a 'child woman' (rolls eyes) |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Well the term 'child woman' was used in my context by someone Greek, when i was in Berlin, attending a film festival. So, an European. So no, its not a literal translation of an Indian word. There is no word in hindi with the same connotation. And he said this before we hooked up. Ive been called 'n... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: im an aspie- get me out of here |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 11:33 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 444
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| Born in Bengal, lived in Mumbai, Hong Kong and Singapore. Moved back to Bengal. In Calcutta. Don't know if you've heard of the place. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: im an aspie- get me out of here |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 6:57 am
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Replies: 7
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| I live in India and I've always wanted to get out of here. It just too crowded and chaotic. I can't even go out without listening to calming loops on my earphones, and even then the noises, smells, dust, chaos, come through.. i used to be braver when i was younger but as i age, i gets more and more ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've been called a 'child woman' (rolls eyes) |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2016, 6:34 am
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Replies: 19
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| I think what i feel bad about is that i totally completely absolutely lack 'guile', which is a very useful seduction technique that i have studied other women employ. Usually if I've ever like someone, I'm the sort of person who would be quite naive about it. Id be more likely to just tell a person ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Why do I feel sexually assaulted when called woman? |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,137
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| Ive had this issue too, for the longest time. I don't feel sexually assaulted, but i certainly do feel that something is expected of me that doesn't come naturally to me. I too have no problems being called a girl. But woman is too much. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've been called a 'child woman' (rolls eyes) |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 3:39 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,547
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I convince my 8 year old sister to remain cute? |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 106
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| Don't worry , she'll grow out of the 'maturity' problem by the age of 83, then its all cutes and silly fun again.. Just hang in there. I get you. Most people pretend to be mature. They actually don't want to, at least not all the time. They'd rather be rolling in the mud sniffing each others socks. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've been called a 'child woman' (rolls eyes) |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 3:05 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Yes, I been called a 'child woman'. 'Adorable' 'wildchild' 'a darling' etc etc while all the time I'm trying to be a badass sexy b***h. What am i doing wrong? |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: animal consciousness |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 9:18 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,097
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| stop w*king your brains and look into their eyes. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT's playact almost all the time- why? |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 8:44 am
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Replies: 7
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| What never makes sense is why NT's do this thing of making a big pretence about appreciating honesty when they actually don't mean it and don't want you to be honest. Almost never. They want you to repeat the same damn stuff that everyone is 'supposed' to say. Its like a play, on stage. Im actually ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: does aspergers and impatience go hand in hand? |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 8:40 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 633
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| Thanks, that makes sense. What never makes sense is why NT's do this thing of making a big pretence about appreciating honesty when they actually don't mean it and don't want you to be honest. Almost never. They want you to repeat the same damn stuff that everyone is 'supposed' to say. It like a pla... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How can sex with one person, forever, be interesting? |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 11:40 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 478
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Is it an aspie thing?
How can sex with one person for a lifetime even be vaguely interesting? Of course, love is different.
But sex has nothing to do with it. NT's seem to obsess about sex. Its so strange. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is it that makes Autism and Animals go hand in hand |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 11:34 am
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Replies: 28
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| I feel safest with animals and seem to be able to communicate with them much better than with humans.. they are much less stress and way more genuine. I guess we hate complexity, have problems with nuance and appreciate honesty. Nothing in the universe is a more direct expression of whats in the sou... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: want 'truth'? we aspies are just terrible people |
| whirlingdervish |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 11:29 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 633
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| Sorry for putting it like that.. i did not mean to categorise everyone as being rude and terrible people. Just wrote a controversial header so you guys would click on it..I just wanted to find out if rudeness and aspergers go hand in hand.. maybe its something to do with impatience.. my dad and i bo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: does aspergers and impatience go hand in hand? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 11:12 am
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Replies: 2
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| Hi, do any of you have extreme impatience while dealing with NT's? I have a lot of tolerance trouble. I am not an insensitive person, however i find myself saying shocking insensitive things when people just don't 'see' what a certain decision or action of theirs would lead them. Normally i seem to ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: want 'truth'? we aspies are just terrible people |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2016, 9:21 am
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Replies: 8
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| We aspies are truly terrible, bigoted small minded people who have inverted narcissism issues and secretly feel were the cats pyjamas. |
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