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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Crushing in the 50s |
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Posted: 17 May 2023, 3:32 pm
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| So, long story short, Best childhood friend knew of bullying and abuse I suffered in Junior High and some anxiety I had, but not huge specifics. (Like, he didn't know I had suicidal thoughts, though never a concrete plan - say 6, maybe closer to 7 on scale of 1-10. His grandfather had shot himself a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why aren't most of you participating in break-dancing!? O__O |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2017, 12:51 pm
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| I might enjoy it in Heaven - sometimes when i get really excited (I'm hypersensitive witht he basic emotions) I do some funny moves, but I've got a bit of crebral palsy here on earth. 3 I have, after seeing some of our church kids doing it, felt inspired to try crab walking and bear walking, though,... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Oscars flub, obvious joke, or a place Asperger's would help? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2017, 11:19 am
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| I don't watch awards shows, though i do like to make jokes about them afterward. Anyway, I heard on the ardio this morning about the oscars and Warren Beatty and someone else reading the wrong card for Best Picture, and I immediately thought, "Oh, they're making a joke based on the Miss Univers... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you want children? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2017, 11:00 am
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| Like a few others, I would need a stable partner, at lea for younger ones. I think I could handle an older child, and I actually looked into adopting, but my financial situation would need a lot of help, too. I did pray about it and feel like God has given me one who is in Heaven - I wrote a blog he... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why Do Some Facebook Posts Get More Likes? |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2017, 7:39 pm
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| Part has to do with who your friends are - I have a few Facebook friends who like my comments but they are long and take longer to read. But, more to what i mean, maybe your Facebook friends just are the kind, like me, who would rather comment than like something. I haven't liked a single post on Fa... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: How many here are employed? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 4:26 pm
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Replies: 48
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| I'm a part-time self-employed estate planning attorney. I now realize it was a Godsend that I didn't get hired out of law school. I think it would have been too much in a firm or even office sharing. However, I sometimes have so few clients I seem unemplloyed, which is why I like to do lots of writi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Imaginary friends |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 4:21 pm
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| Yes, especially with my stuffed animals, they are ways I find encouragement in my life, deciding what to say in some situations, working out how a conversation went and what happened, even in my faith. Not only will I sometimes imagine one saying, "Talk to God about it," if I am too overwh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Does aspergers get harder as you get older? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 4:02 pm
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| I'm 46 but only really realized I had mild Asperger's in my late 30s, a realization I'd been coming to for a few years. I found it harder into the 20s and then it got better as I got in with a group of Singles at my church that were really understanding of my goofiness. Part of what hurt me was that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Q for Men with mild ASD |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2015, 9:38 pm
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| Extremely patient, ability to communicate her concerns and a sixth sense of sorts for others' concerns. Willing to take part in silly things we do and yet also very encoruaging and supportive in helping us out of our shell and helping us to interact with others. Very positive. Teacher/nurse/soemthin... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Requesting feedback about adult breakdown/burnout |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2015, 4:47 pm
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| Never crashed that badly, never in an institution, but had burnout from law practice trying to do *everything* out of my home, since I couldn't afford an office space and never got hired; which was a saving grace as it turned out. I vividly recall taking more off days, playing video games, etc. a lo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Where / why did you meet? |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2015, 4:24 pm
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| One close one I met in grade school througha mutual friend, we still e-mail & are on Facebook following each other's exploits & he and his adopted kids stopped to see me this summer when they were in town. (He could tell I didn't recognize him at first, not having seen him in town for years,... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Should i major in theatre even though I have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 3:52 pm
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| When you look at how some performers act, you would think that there were quite a few Aspies in the ranks compared to the population as a whole. I mean, demanding (and I'm just making up an example here) a certain type of muffin delivered to your cabin in a certain way, or having only a certain type... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What advice would you give to your younger self? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2015, 7:26 pm
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| 6YO me: You have Asperger's Syndrome, a processing/developmental delay, but *DON'T* let it make you think you will be limited. You jsut look at the world differently. Just like with your vision and hearing handicaps, you can accomplish anything. (I really think had I known this at certain stages it ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Whether to become a parent or not |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2015, 6:59 pm
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| I've always been good with kids and always wanted them - in fact I "role played" by myself pretending how I'd be in various situations in my mid-20s. I didn't realize my problem was very mild AS or PDD-NOS (I'm right on the borderline) till my mid-'30s, by which time I'd given up on having... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: I was never young when I was young |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2015, 12:17 pm
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| This is true for me. When I was a kid I got along better with adults then those my own age. As an adult I got along with kids more then adults. I have read many posts with people having similar experiences. Same here to a good extent. i suspect that when you're young, peer relationships are as much... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: please advise as this is getting me down |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2015, 11:04 am
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Replies: 5
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| SAdly, losing someone may be what makes him realize his wrongs - it's what helped someone I knew in high school/college to finally improve when we stopped hanging out. He wasn't an Aspie but had other issues I'd tried to help him with. However, one thing you can try is role playing. He may not under... |
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