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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2017, 11:01 pm
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Replies: 45
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Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel so empty and alone?
I feel like I'm losing my mind. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2017, 1:09 pm
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Replies: 45
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| And staying away from porn/masturbation helps, too, although masturbation without any other stimulus would ease up on the desire for partner sex. I could be wrong, but I wonder if the desire for sex and relationships is intensified by portrayals in porn. Reality isn't as simple and straightforward ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2017, 12:56 pm
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| KiryuEX: I'm sorry, I hope you feel better and get what you wanted soon. +1. And I'm not here to lecture or patronize. I get that it hurts you and that you feel lonely. This is strictly my unqualified OPINION: I don't think you're ready. For any of it. Sex, relationships... Everything. You aren't r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 01 Apr 2017, 8:52 pm
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| Ok, that's good progress. I can work with that. It's your business if you want to pursue relationships. It's not up to me to judge you or say what you can/can't do. I think what you need to think about is when you start talking sex/relationships, yoi are talking about things that will alter another... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2017, 6:36 pm
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Replies: 45
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| Game night isn't working for you, though. No one is playing with you or interested in the games you bring. Your particular problem is lack of skill interacting with others. Game night requires actual interaction. You can't move the needle if you can't approach others at game night. You're doing you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2017, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 45
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| You should check out this video by RSDMax, he goes in depth for 3 hours on how to talk to girls, how to get their number, how to approach women, how to tell if a girl is dtf, how to initiate kissing and sex, etc... Bring a pencil and piece of paper and write down everything he says. Stay up all nig... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2017, 2:12 pm
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Replies: 45
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| Game night isn't working for you, though. No one is playing with you or interested in the games you bring. Your particular problem is lack of skill interacting with others. Game night requires actual interaction. You can't move the needle if you can't approach others at game night. You're doing you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2017, 5:14 pm
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Replies: 45
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| I'm just so tired of it all. No matter how I look at it, it just seems hopeless. Well, I'm willing to help walk you through it whenever you're ready. Just let us know. How? Simple. Start by going where people are. You don't have to talk to anyone, just hang out. One hour at most. Observe. See and b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2017, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 45
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AngelRho wrote: KiryuEX wrote: I'm just so tired of it all. No matter how I look at it, it just seems hopeless. Well, I'm willing to help walk you through it whenever you're ready. Just let us know.
How? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2017, 6:57 pm
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Replies: 45
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| I'm just so tired of it all. No matter how I look at it, it just seems hopeless. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 45
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| You wrote: I rarely leave the house except for my weekly game night and the occasional errand or family function. I don't have any friends or any kind of social network. I have no idea how to make true friends, so the idea of getting a girlfriend seems all but impossible. This paragraph seems to be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 4:17 pm
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Replies: 45
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| Ok...here we go AGAIN... Let's start with some reading material. This is what I like: The Bible (especially the Old Testament, I prefer the HCSB version), 48 Laws of Power, Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People, and Stephen Covey's 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People. The basic co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 45
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| You already have an activity – the game night – why you don't try to grow your social interaction from it? Get closer to the people, try to make different activities with them. It's difficult, I know, but it's somewhere to start. You can also try to engage in some course/education – this is basical... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 4:02 pm
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Replies: 45
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| " how to I get to have sex and find "the one"? Sex, well... you can get that from just about anywhere. There's clubs, and Craigslist. I suggest you do neither, and not allow your hormones to get you to that point. It's a very dangerous road and after feeling the smallest connection, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't stand it anymore |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 3:56 pm
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Replies: 45
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| I have Aspergers syndrome. I also suffer from anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD, and alexithymia. And probably some other stuff I'm forgetting at the moment. I want sex. I want to touch and be touched. I want intimacy, both physical and emotional. I want to be loved. Or at least I think I do. But I do... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: This is me |
| KiryuEX |
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Posted: 10 Mar 2017, 10:18 pm
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Replies: 5
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| "I'm a virgin. I've never even kissed or held hands. And it's killing me!" I don't get the whole losing virginity thing. It's just to continue the survival of the human species. We have plenty of people in sub-Saharan Africa who do that for us. As for the rest, you must be positive. Hope ... |
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