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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Supporting NT partner |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2017, 8:06 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 577
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| Yeah this is a really broad topic and depends on the person and also on the situation the person wants support for. Generally I want someone to be there and act like they are listening to me and it does not require that they say a lot or offer solutions. I like to vent and have a listener who looks ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Looking for love or just feeling lonely? |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2017, 10:21 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,065
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| It could help to write down your own ideas of what would exactly you want from a relationship and what exactly you are willing to give to a relationship. Add to it from time to time as you think of things. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just give it all up? |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2017, 1:13 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 690
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| Both genders have their unique struggles that depend on what part of the world they are in and many other variables (independent wealth, attractiveness, personality, age). There are lots of men and lots of women who suffer and struggle because they don't fit into their societies roles for men/women.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why tell me one thing but mean another?? |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2017, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,469
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| My girlfriend is making absolutely 0 sense to me lately. She always tells me one thing, and then when I do that thing, she yells at me.. but she just told me to do it? For example, she decided to skip school but was tired and wanted to sleep and I wasn't. I asked her if I could go hangout with my f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why tell me one thing but mean another?? |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2017, 6:40 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,469
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| She felt vulnerable saying what she wanted as directly as you needed to hear it to understand. Similar to how you would feel if you had to go stand in a crowded public place in your underware. It makes you want to cover yourself up and protect yourself. She also didn't want to be bossy and demanding... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help communicating |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2017, 3:51 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 884
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| It may be that he believes he has the balance of power in the relationship, especially with him shutting you down. Next time he starts talking non-stop, try examining his face minutely with great interest (look at the pores of his skin, patterns in irises, direction of hairs etc.) Apparently it's d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help communicating |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2017, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 884
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| Thank you for replies, I really need advice and no one I know has any experience to give advice on this. We are dating and spend a lot of time together. It's only been a few months and is undefined on my side and on his side he was ready to commit right away. The first few weeks he was very quiet, w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Frustration is not Entitlement |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2017, 1:28 pm
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Replies: 52
Views: 3,343
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| Being able to get sex/attention from men is not an indication of having it "easier." Why not? Because sex/attention from hundreds or thousands of strange men is not what most women want. Why would women feel like they have it easier bc they can easily get what you want, when it's somethin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help communicating |
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Posted: 26 May 2017, 12:57 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 884
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| I'm trying to communicate better with my male friend and our main issues are that I spend 99% of the time listening to things I'm not interested in and that when I talk he does not listen/and purposefully changes the topic to something unrelated to interrupt me. I'm thinking he may have no idea I fi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't feel love & my wife is frustrated |
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Posted: 22 May 2017, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,017
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| I think it's typical that people feel less excited about someone they have been with for a while. That is a struggle that all couples go through especially once kids enter the picture. I don't think you should read into this as meaning that you don't love the person. No, I don't think that is typic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't feel love & my wife is frustrated |
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Posted: 21 May 2017, 7:02 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,017
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| I think it's typical that people feel less excited about someone they have been with for a while. That is a struggle that all couples go through especially once kids enter the picture. I don't think you should read into this as meaning that you don't love the person. Are you trying to do things that... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: The problem of SJWs |
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Posted: 18 May 2017, 11:51 am
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Replies: 1,722
Views: 58,298
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| I'm surrounded by SJW's in my city who regularly protest now every week, in a city where the majority already agree with them. There could be not a more purposeless, revel in feel goodism, self masturbatory virtue signaling activity then gathering regularly to stand around and do nothing in an area ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people misunderstand your intentions? |
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Posted: 18 May 2017, 12:29 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,684
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| The guy I'm seeing does this, both interpreting very literally or interpreting intention or meaning that is negative and not part of what I'm saying. I've been asking him to please only interpret my words literally because it's more accurate, but on thinking about this maybe I need to start saying e... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: My wife wants to leave and I am terrified |
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Posted: 16 May 2017, 2:07 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 204
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| Find out what she likes and do some of it. Google ways to tell someone that you care, and you can find phrases that help in expressing this. Try to listen to her, (5-10 minutes)let her talk and don't give her solutions or tell her what you feel, she needs to share her emotions in order to feel like ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Attracted to people with little concrete in common? |
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Posted: 16 May 2017, 1:49 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 645
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| Sometimes it's hard to find someone you are both physically attracted to and mentally attracted to. I think having a lot of common interests, things you like to talk about, places you like to go, commonalities are very helpful for a long term relationship. In the short term physical attraction works... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: why do guys send naked pictures? |
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Posted: 16 May 2017, 1:42 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,787
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| Simple: they think that'll turn the woman on and make her want to sleep with them. Which is almost never the case. This is what my guy friends have told me is the reason. It is bizarre to me, I have no idea why any guys would think this. Only extremely rarely (if ever) would it produce the desired ... |
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