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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't put women on a pedestal |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 8:17 pm
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Replies: 105
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| If only... In all seriousness, though, sly, I think you’re right. What we want is a warm body in close proximity. That’s just objective reality. Staring across the room—well, ok that’s something, I guess. But “distance relationships...”? Warm, living bodies in your personal space are REAL. Everythi... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Does recurring coldsores mean I have an STD? |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 18
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| So much of the population between the ages of 18-60 has HSV-1 and/or HSV-2 (Herpes Simplex Virus 1 - cold sores, Herpes Simplex Virus 2 - genital herpes) that most doctors do not even test for it if you ask for an STD panel (not bothering to look it up again right now but it's between 60-80% of that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Public Notice: Incel Trolls |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 6:33 pm
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Replies: 297
Views: 9,973
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| Aspie1, Thank you for that info about the sub groups, I didn't know most of the terminology until very recently. As stated before, there are no new rules. Perhaps XFG's original post did come across as a bit hostile, but bear in mind that tact isn't a strong point in the case of many of us on the s... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Song you're obsessed with |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 6:27 pm
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Replies: 1,701
Views: 104,432
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't put women on a pedestal |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 6:21 pm
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Replies: 105
Views: 3,391
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| If only... In all seriousness, though, sly, I think you’re right. What we want is a warm body in close proximity. That’s just objective reality. Staring across the room—well, ok that’s something, I guess. But “distance relationships...”? Warm, living bodies in your personal space are REAL. Everythi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Put everyone on the same pedestal. |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2019, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,090
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| If I shouldn't put my happily imperfect people up on the nice little pedestals I make for them, can I at least put pretty neon signs over their heads that say they are awesome? Pretty please? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 25 Dec 2018, 2:18 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 1,287
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| I'm not exactly as resigned in this sense, the way I see it I was the one who was lost in the first place; nobody was looking for me but someone found me anyway & it's on me to work things out with her. I'm a loyal person regardless of my situation. It's not an issue of resigned as it is recogn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 25 Dec 2018, 12:37 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 1,287
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| Regardless of all the underlying motives, I always feel like the one who's lost. It comes with the territory I suppose. Who is lost? Who has lost? My brain is having trouble narrowing this one down. But what I can say is that the more I've learned to accept that other people are going to do their t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 11:48 pm
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Replies: 63
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| I think this culture of 'dumping' people is total anathema to how I intend to treat them. Maybe it's because of how few people ever get close to me but the idea of finality separating people because of some unwritten rule none of us seem able to describe freaks me out. It feels like we're taking ea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Serious question about something I read |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 123
Views: 2,193
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| Actually most people I know find it annoying or incomprehensible that I work with lots of advanced technology. I would be much more able to relate if I had any kind of job working with people or material things. I really think you need to find different people or something, because I personally thi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 63
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| Bumping my own post because I don't want us ignoring it, myself included We are more than used to disinterest here. Why do we never talk about how to make the most of it? I don't think that's a zero sum, especially for those of us with no one else in our lives but said "disinterested" par... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Serious question about something I read |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 123
Views: 2,193
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| Actually most people I know find it annoying or incomprehensible that I work with lots of advanced technology. I would be much more able to relate if I had any kind of job working with people or material things. I really think you need to find different people or something, because I personally thi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Serious question about something I read |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 9:42 pm
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Replies: 123
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| I wasn’t looking down on single moms I even said so. My mom was single mom, I neber had a dad. Though it’d be better to have a mom and dad in picture that’s not always possible. Most single moms I’ve seen or met work or live with parants and work. We lived with my grandma until i was in middle scho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 63
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| No I’m saying if you do want a relationship just not with that person just tell them that, don’t lie to them then date some guy week later then expect them to not be hurt you lied to them. It’s bettet to tell people the truth the make up false excuses. Agreed. I can’t be friends with someone I’m ro... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not interested/"friend zone"/Give me a chance |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 63
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kraftiekortie wrote: It's easier to find a girlfriend if you're already friends with a woman.
She can give good advice. She might also have a friend who is lonely---and she can put in a good word for you.
You should seriously run a how to not be a jerk and date hotline or something...  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Serious question about something I read |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2018, 8:19 pm
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Replies: 123
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| And who doesn't like a Christmas Eve/Christmas debate anyway? Gotta bring some excitement into things! LOL |
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