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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 11:20 am
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Replies: 14
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| I hope it all works out for you. It's best that you're both in University, and have similar goals (in the sense of obtaining the degree). Sometimes, if one partner is going to school, and another one isn't, there are problems because the one going to school has to concentrate on his/her work. Thank... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 7:21 am
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Replies: 14
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| Sounds really swell. It goes to show: you don't have to be "experienced" to have a mutual good time. It's great that you both orgasm'd. Everything came naturally. I'm glad this turned out this way. When I was 17, during my first sexual experience with a girl, I couldn't orgasm, even thoug... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2017, 8:04 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I didn't have any advice for you earlier but I'm glad you gave us an update OP & I'm very glad things went OK for the most part & your not very freaked out or anything. I really hope things go just as good next week for you guys Hey! Many thanks for the kind response. Much appreciated. And ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2017, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Hey guys, Okay. Like most, pretty uncomfortable talking about this, but here goes........... I'm 22, gay, and have mild Asperger's. I'm completely celibate, but definitely not by choice. No need to state how uncomfortable I feel talking to people, so getting intimate has always been nerve wracking.... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2017, 3:16 am
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Replies: 14
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| I agree about trying not to overthink it, though I know that's easier said than done. I think anybody can be a little awkward when it comes to online hookups, so he shouldn't mind a bit of awkwardness. If you're worried about your inexperience, you can always just mention you don't have much experi... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2017, 2:56 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 196
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| I think it's probably best to just tell him about this. If he wants to get intimate, it might be nice for you if you can start slowly, ease into it. Letting him know your thoughts and worries about this will probably lead to a more comfortable intimacy for the both of you. In my experience, most pe... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 6:35 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Hey guys, Okay. Like most, pretty uncomfortable talking about this, but here goes........... I'm 22, gay, and have mild Asperger's. I'm completely celibate, but definitely not by choice. No need to state how uncomfortable I feel talking to people, so getting intimate has always been nerve wracking. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feel like I'm in a big rut, and don't know what to do |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2017, 8:50 pm
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| Hey guys, This is going to be a long one, so please bear with me. Also, I wasn't sure whether to post this in the 'Social Skills and Making Friends' or 'LGBT Discussion', but thought this area suits my problems best. I've recently asked advice on here regarding dating a short while ago, and that'll ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2017, 2:27 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,115
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| Again, thanks to you both. I have since blocked him, so there shouldn't be any issues. I'm glad there was no emotional involvement on my part, and it was more a case of "enthusiastic excitement". I've only been in love once before, in my last year of school. However, unfortunately, it was ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 6:20 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Hi, Thanks for the cautionary advice. Like I said above, in person, his personality was rather bizarrely different than what it appeared to be online. I would under other circumstances feel disappointed in myself for believing his "lies". However, little by little, I did hear little alarm ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 7:46 am
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| Regarding the profile picture, I did at first assume he chose an older photo because maybe he was embarrassed about his weight, which I could understand. I'm guessing the photo is at least two years old, as he looked almost unrecognisable in person. Now that he's revealed more of his "negative&... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 6:32 am
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| Hi, Many thanks for your response and kind words. I do often feel guilty, even over the most trivial of things. However, like I said, I cannot at all see myself dating/being in a relationship with him. Therefore, I could attempt to tell him so, or, as you suggest, I think it best then to simply bloc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2017, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Hey, I'm still pretty new to this site, and only posted a "Hi" message when I joined. However, now I would greatly appreciate any help/advice. I'm a 22-year-old guy with mild Asperger's. Naturally, I don't need to explain how incredibly shy and socially uncomfortable I often feel around pe... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi! (New here/introducing myself) |
| AspieO |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2017, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 259
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Thanks!
I've recently found this site, and I'm looking forward to interacting and listening to people's stories/thoughts.
Owen. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi! (New here/introducing myself) |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2017, 9:55 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 259
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Hi!
I'm new here, so thought I'd introduce myself. (22-year-old guy from the UK)
Owen. |
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