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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed)

Zebra3
Posted: 28 Oct 2017, 7:21 pm 

Replies: 53
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This will probably sound harsh, but there needs to be an « us » to actually « pray for us ». I’m not saying there isn’t one, just questioning if there is. There’s certainly one to you, but I don’t know if there’s one to him, I don’t know if he can, as an aspie, « mentally build » the concept of a co...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed)

Zebra3
Posted: 05 Oct 2017, 4:59 pm 

Replies: 53
Views: 2,432
Others have probably much more knowledge than me, but I try anyway. IMHO, he should really try to get a diagnostic and if confirmed he should educate himself (as far as possible) about his peculiarities. And if you haven’t yet read Tony Attwood’s « Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome », you defini...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Understanding someone with ASD and alexithymia ?

Zebra3
Posted: 03 Oct 2017, 5:38 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 717
Yep’, unless she’s totally messed up in her head, played with me and lied to cover it, I think she was just trying to be nice, but being totally clumsy. If she’s aspie with very limited theory of mind, she may never have « put herself in my shoes », so she may have been trying to act nicely without ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Understanding someone with ASD and alexithymia ?

Zebra3
Posted: 24 Sep 2017, 3:52 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 717
Thanks for your answer. I must say, this is « pretty weird » in a fascinating way to read a sentence such as « I have basically no conception of what any of those emotions even are. It just would not occur to me at all. » I hope my question doesn’t come off as rude but then how can you describe YOUR...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Understanding someone with ASD and alexithymia ?

Zebra3
Posted: 20 Sep 2017, 6:19 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 717
Hey, thanks for your answer and taking the time to read. Sorry but my answer is quite long, as I need the details to explain why life made her so important to me. Yes you got that right. She was my physiotherapist, and I had a crush for her at the first appointment, but it took me months to realize ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed)

Zebra3
Posted: 19 Sep 2017, 6:00 pm 

Replies: 53
Views: 2,432
I guess you need to answer some questions for yourself: Can this guy fulfill your emotional needs as an NT woman? Do you want a man who has trouble with social skills? Is he worth the risk of traveling back to see if the relationship will succeed? I second this. My dad probably has ASD (but ignores...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Understanding someone with ASD and alexithymia ?

Zebra3
Posted: 18 Sep 2017, 6:03 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 717
Hi, Sorry for the length :? Here are the protagonists of the story : -A 32yo girl I had a massive crush on and who seemed pretty nice, until she went apeshit on the phone and slowly kicked me out of her life, and that I think has asperger syndrome (looking like borderline syndrome disorder), I also ...

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: Hi ^_^

Zebra3
 Post subject: Hi ^_^
Posted: 18 Sep 2017, 5:48 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 365
Hi, new member here.

Not diagnosed, probably gifted in some way (highly emotionnal), maybe some light asperger traits, and it seems like I'm surrounded by aspies (dad, buddy, etc)

Trying to understand the particularities of an AS mind.
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