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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of everything |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2018, 12:52 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 133
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| This has not been a good week at all. Just feeling very irritable and alone with my thoughts too much. Thought getting outside would help but it only made things even worse and kinda took my irritation out on friends which i regret very much. Spent he last few hours just sitting here staring at wall... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I want to die!! |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 16 Jan 2018, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 131
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| Whoever said you have to do everything on your own? Theres nothing wrong with someone helping you through stuff like this. Just because you're not strong now, doesnt mean you never will be. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loving yourself |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2017, 3:35 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 164
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| I want to ask How would you define "loving yourself?" Well for one i struggle with not being able to be alone and happy. I dont see any positives about myself at all. I feel like i burden everyone and i have these constant scenarios pop up in my head that everyone i care about will abando... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Assistance pleeeasee |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2017, 7:39 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 123
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| Im beginning to think that no matter what i try with socializing anywhere it just ends up being the same result. Its supposed to be easier when its not face to face but for me its all the same. I end up sitting here staring at my computer screen for about a hour trying to make myself say something. ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loving yourself |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2017, 4:15 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 164
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| With the kind of posts that I see here... I feel like a lot of people don't love themselves... >_> There is a huge bulk of low self-esteem... I guess what helped me see a reason to have some sort of love for myself is the people in my life who find my qualities of which I disliked to be something a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loving yourself |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2017, 2:52 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 164
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| There's probably alot of people on the spectrum who eventually learned to love themselves but i currently don't at the moment nor i understand the idea of "learning to love" anything. That's like saying if you had a legit reason that you didn't like a family member but everyone told you to... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Losing Hope |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2017, 1:13 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 334
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| This year pretty much hasn't been a good one to me. Whether it be a family that toxic to be around or just losing people i love very much. I just keep losing friends and and having problems with family to where i get afraid of losing anyone all the time. I randomly picture scenarios in my head wher... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Writing things down |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 7:49 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 157
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| Alot of people say writing things down in journals help people gather their thoughts. It really doesn't help me. In fact it makes it really worse because i feel like I'm talking to a wall when I write down thoughts. I feel even more lonely. Does anyone else feel like that? And if so how do you deal? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Meditation |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 5:09 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 220
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| Yoga Nidra works way better for me than sitting meditation. You lay on your back, so if you get stiff easily like I do, it's way less distracting that way. Being stiff isnt my main problem. Everything is so foreign to me without example. If theres a way to show what actually happens to your mind. L... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Meditation |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 1:16 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 220
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| I've been recommended by a friend to try meditation for negative thoughts, yet i cannot understand how to do it without some soft of visual example and since its all in the mind you kinda cant. So any ideas on how to learn something like that if you're a visual thinker? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Some sort of answers... |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2017, 8:27 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 127
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magz wrote: The idea may be silly but...
you seem to be a visual thinker.
How about starting a webcomic about how you feel?
I wouldnt call it silly. That kinda makes sense. It would be much easier if i knew others who thought like that too so it would be easier for me to learn certain things |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Some sort of answers... |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2017, 6:38 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 127
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| Yeah that's pretty much what i mean. I don't know how to work through it. And as i said, medication doesnt do anything to me. Not even negative side effects. no effect whatsoever. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Some sort of answers... |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2017, 5:41 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 127
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| Im finding my depression becoming worse as time goes on. Everybody who i surround myself with that has success in their lives in any way, i should get motivated but i don't. It just makes me even more depressed and in some cases i get extremely jealous. Medications don't affect me and i usually just... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's on your mind right now? |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2017, 2:11 am
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Replies: 44,889
Views: 1,340,263
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| Its about to be the end of the year and 2017 has been not good to me, and i mentally i dont feel any progress at all. talking to people just ends up in arguments about how changing yourself is so simple. It seems like its easier for everyone else but me. Talking doesnt help, medication has zero effe... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Got Anything Random To Say |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2017, 4:45 am
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Replies: 121,997
Views: 4,390,954
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| Two banana cream pies!! ! |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Post a Picture of the Real You. |
| Eternallyfading |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2017, 8:27 am
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Replies: 12,718
Views: 2,219,455
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Oh thank you  |
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