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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: ~Happy New Year!!~ |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2018, 5:02 pm
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What time is it now, where you are? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2017, 9:04 am
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Replies: 17,288
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| 14:03 New year's eve, happy new year! |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 6:34 pm
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Replies: 881
Views: 18,696
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| Hello, I'm a nurse called Tom and I'm always either worried or confused. I want to talk to others. The diagnosis has changed my perception of myself. I have survived by assuming I'm rubbish, but it's not a question of that. So just hello. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I have to become what I hate? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 249
Views: 5,562
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| There is no need for a relationship to be fake. They aren't mostly fake. It's just neuro typical people say stuff. I fall down here. It's not fake it's something else. A complicated language where very powerful words are thrown out in a trivial way. I agree it's confusing. I think if you're interest... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I have to become what I hate? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 249
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| I don't think it's possible to become a fake you. It's a sign that it's not a good thing if you feel you have to go this far. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I have to become what I hate? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 4:45 pm
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Replies: 249
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| I've tried a few relationships in my life and they can be good. It's difficult and I can't cope or understand them too well. I last dated a lady who seemed to want to cure me. It was really frustrating. It is possible to enjoy a relationship though and benefit from them in many ways. I think it's wo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I have to become what I hate? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 249
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| I've tried a few relationships in my life and they can be good. It's difficult and I can't cope or understand them too well. I last dated a lady who seemed to want to cure me. It was really frustrating. It is possible to enjoy a relationship though and benefit from them in many ways. I think it's wo... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Got Anything Random To Say |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2017, 12:29 pm
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Replies: 121,620
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do people with Asperger's remain virgins for life? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2017, 3:43 pm
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Replies: 183
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| Darwin, remember the familial nature of Aspies. If we didn't or couldn't loose our virginity, we wouldn't exist. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I’m Quitting My Job |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2017, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,307
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| You will be fine in time what ever path you choose. You're health is way more important so if you can afford to escape this environment, do it. Otherwise try to find a coping mechanism. Remember that most people don't get the traits and think it's something else. All experiences can be used to build... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Any autistic health care professionals out there? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2017, 6:53 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,455
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| Yes, hello. I'm a nurse also NHS, I have more difficulty then solutions so far, BUT, I have held down this job for more then ten years. I had problems with depression, which have brought me to my Aspie diagnosis, which is still very new. HR know about me but realy don't understand. I have popped und... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone been for an ADOS test as an adult? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2017, 6:31 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,227
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| It's not at all frightening when you do it. I found the IQ test taxing. I still don't realy know what to do next though. Mine was a few months ago. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Nurses with Aspergers, how do you cope? |
| thomasDgash |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2017, 2:59 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 9,317
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| Hello, I really have problems in acute medical admissions. It's the constant noise, the crowds of people waiting for beds, the lack of space, the three urgent jobs I have on all at once, and the knowlage that if I fail to get it done someone will suffer, maybe die. Its so hard. Anxiety builds before... |
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