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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mental horror |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2018, 9:44 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 650
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| It's possible to be overweight and healthy. She didn't say obese. I am about 30 lbs overweight, but I eat healthier than anyone I know and I exercise regularly. It's just been hard to get rid of that little bit of padding, because I live on a budget and eating healthy is expensive. But I have no ch... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mental horror |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2018, 10:15 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 650
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| I’m overweight but healthy and generally feel attractive. If you're overweight you are not healthy. Pet peeve of mine. Overweight is the precursor for many health issues to come and you're racking up debt that you're going to pay later on down the road. You've already seen the fallout from being ov... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT asking for input |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2018, 9:57 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 951
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| He sounds like he's a good match for you. Perhaps you need to stop looking at it as an investment, and just let things traverse down whatever path destiny has laid out. Look at it this way: what do you think the chances are that you're going to find someone that you'll both fall in love within 6 mon... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT - married to an AS partner and I'm desperate |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 31 May 2018, 10:19 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 754
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| I sympathize, because I'm NT married to someone with AS. I was very close to divorcing my wife because she was continuously starting petty arguments that would escalate into angry shouting matches between the two of us. I don't have time for this given the fact that I am an extremely busy person. Be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what are we |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 30 May 2018, 11:48 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 254
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djdaryl wrote: i have had a crush on this guy i work with for a long time.
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then i worked with him the next day and we talked a little like we always do, but basically acted like nothing had happened. End it. Work and dating/love is a disaster waiting to happen. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT - married to an AS partner and I'm desperate |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 30 May 2018, 11:45 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 754
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| You need marriage counseling, badly. Make sure it's with a therapist who knows how to handle someone with AS, otherwise it will be a disaster. Give yourself a timeline for improvement, like 6 months. If things haven't gotten any better then it might be time to end things for your own sanity and heal... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people keep telling me I need to start dating? |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 30 May 2018, 11:31 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 1,472
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| It's people projecting. They see things from their perspective, and to them they cannot fathom how someone can be happy unless they have a significant other in their life, hence they feel compelled to urge you to find someone. Tell them you're not interested in searching for a partner, and you're fi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be there for my Aspie GF |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 24 May 2018, 10:06 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 346
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| Bear in mind that NT relationships with those who have neurological disorders is insanely tough. If you're confused now and feeling any frustration, you've only seen the tip of the iceberg. You have to be ready to take some extraordinary steps in order to make things work, and you also need to be pr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to do as a guy if feeling like I am too feminine? |
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Posted: 24 May 2018, 9:58 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 875
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| Are there other ways to improve testosterone? Yes: your diet plays a huge role. Try doing the "one meal a day" diet for a while. Tough to get started and fairly tough to maintain, but HGH and testosterone are boosted by around 1000% and over 50%, respectively (results may vary - this is t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to recognize romantic feelings? |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 22 May 2018, 9:57 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 863
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| I feel like i did the right thing by saying we're not fit for each other but i'm also scared no one else is going to like me.. You absolutely did the right thing. He doesn't even want to wait 2 years before getting married? The guy's out of his mind. I wouldn't consider marrying someone until I'd l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to recognize romantic feelings? |
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Posted: 21 May 2018, 9:58 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 863
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| If he's constantly bringing up marriage and children when you guys aren't even in a relationship, that's just weird. People don't do that. I'd be incredibly cautious if you decide to become involved. That has warning signs all over it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Caring Deeply for an Aspie & Confused |
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Posted: 18 May 2018, 10:35 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 406
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| It could be your perception of him and the way you're communicating what this guy is like, but he doesn't sound like he has Asperger's to any significant degree. Usually males with it are pretty easy to identify when you get to know them, as they have character traits that aren't easy to camouflage,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting over being rejected from someone you love |
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Posted: 17 May 2018, 10:17 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 397
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| If he's as hurt as he is, than I think he was in love. Love means different things to different people. He wasn't in love with the actual person, though. He was in love with the ideal version of that person. Until you're in a romantic relationship with someone and get over the "puppy love"... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what did this text message imply? |
| ConcernedNtHusband |
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Posted: 16 May 2018, 10:17 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 773
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| I agree with the others. The person was trying to have someone swoop in and take them out of the interaction they were having with you. Sucks that you saw those texts because I'm sure it hurts. But on the bright side you know you don't have to waste any energy on this person anymore. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting over being rejected from someone you love |
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Posted: 16 May 2018, 10:12 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 397
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| I fell in love with someone after talking to them a few times. You weren't in love with them. You were either in lust with, infatuated with them or a combination of both. You don't fall in love with someone you don't know. The feelings can be incredibly intense, but unless you've known someone for ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I talk(online) to my crush or just forget about it? |
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Posted: 14 May 2018, 10:00 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 343
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| she posted a pic on social media for the first time in almost 3 years, and it just made me fall in love again. You're not in love. You may be fixated, or smitten, etc., but love? Nope. That said, if you're interested, pursue her. Worst thing that happens is she says no and never talks to you again.... |
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