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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| whatever4ever |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2018, 4:08 pm
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Replies: 35
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| I communicate with people easily... but if I'm talking and he's just listening, I get the feeling that I'm talking to the wall or something. He acknowledges that he's listening but if I get frustrated that he's not saying anything he will say "Well, what do you want me to say?" That seems... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| whatever4ever |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2018, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 35
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| I communicate with people easily... but if I'm talking and he's just listening, I get the feeling that I'm talking to the wall or something. He acknowledges that he's listening but if I get frustrated that he's not saying anything he will say "Well, what do you want me to say?" That seems... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| whatever4ever |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2018, 4:04 pm
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| I'm looking for better ways of communicating from him. That would be mind-to-mind, but it is unlikely you will be able to create such a connection when you have been together for almost a year. Should I just give up hope that we'll carry on phone conversations well? Probably. Phone conversations ar... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| whatever4ever |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2018, 4:01 pm
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| My story? As someone on the spectrum I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough for my SO. It can be difficult for me to participate in some of her activities. She's very extroverted and sometimes it's hard for me to be social with her friends. She never has any difficulty interacting with my friend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| whatever4ever |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2018, 11:55 pm
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Replies: 35
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| Your S/O sounds similar to myself. Especially with the specific instructions part, which is about to come into play right now. What do you need help with exactly? I'm looking for better ways of communicating from him. Should I just give up hope that we'll carry on phone conversations well? Irl, he'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2018, 11:53 pm
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| I just need some tips or relating stories to help me feel like I'm not the only one going through this (because Lord knows I'm not). Anything I can do to help myself or my S/O? Any good book recommendations? Gosh, I don't know. Honestly it sounds like smooth sailing to me, you seem to have a lot of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2018, 11:49 pm
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| Just curious, did you initiate the relationship or did he? Sorry I'm getting back to this question so late. I read a lot of responses and got overwhelmed and forgot to check back! Actually, he did. He said he was into me for about a year before he made any moves. I only got to know him because he w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 7:46 pm
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| Your S/O sounds similar to myself. Especially with the specific instructions part, which is about to come into play right now. What do you need help with exactly? I'm looking for better ways of communicating from him. Should I just give up hope that we'll carry on phone conversations well? Irl, he'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 7:43 pm
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| Read, I’m just a lonely aspie though so nothing to share, honestly why you’re with an aspie confuses me, good luck though Well he didn't disclose before or after we got together. We've been together 11 months and I just now found out. He said he felt shame when it came to telling me. When we got to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 10:14 am
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| Hello all! This is my first time posting here. While my significant other hasn't been properly diagnosed, we (his mom, himself and myself) are aware of his possibility of being on the spectrum. It's my observation that it could be some mild form of Asperger's. I want to understand more about what it... |
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