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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How should I go about doing this? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 31 May 2019, 1:27 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 357
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| So, my best friend is in a mental hospital at the moment, and has been in several different ones over the past few months. Her and I fight a lot, though we always end up being fine. Also, she's also on the spectrum. Here's the problem: She takes her stress out on me, as she knows I'll always forgive... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I stop panicking? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2019, 10:33 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 235
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| I have really bad abandonment issues, and will panic whenever a friend is mad at me, but it gets a million times worse with a girlfriend. And yes, I'm doing therapy and everything I can for all of the problems I have. Any advice? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those who had an ASD partner |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2019, 8:25 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 558
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| Both of my exes are on the spectrum. My most recent ex does look her age; maybe even a little older. My first ex and I both look SIGNIFICANTLY younger than we actually are. It is genetic, my dad did get "carded" past the age of 45, but on the other hand, my mom went grey in her early 30s. ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: I need something evil, angry, and hateful |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2019, 11:51 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 540
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RoseThorn13 wrote: Iamaparakeet wrote: RoseThorn13 wrote: How about me?  I'm a real b***h.  I wasn't aware dogs could type.  They can when then they're rabid 
*frantically bashes paws against the keyboard* |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2019, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 64,825
Views: 2,408,656
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: I need something evil, angry, and hateful |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2019, 12:31 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 540
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| I am having a bad day of epic proportions, and metal usually helps me cope. But I don't have anything angry enough for how bad today is. I'm looking for something along the lines of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pu3ZHgYowQg Any ideas? The angrier it is, the more aggressive the instrumentals,... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2019, 12:29 pm
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Replies: 64,825
Views: 2,408,656
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The advantages of dating Aspies vs. NTs |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 847
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| Both of my exes were on the spectrum, and my current girlfriend is not. Here's my comparison, although I have a sample size of three: Exes had a hard time figuring out theor emotions, and eventually realized they were lying to themselves to make me happy. Furthermore, even after they realized that, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: LDR: How do I make things less awkward in person |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2019, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 373
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| She even said that next time, I should just try to hug her, and if I was comfortable with it, go for the kiss, even if she said no. I can't do that, as I'm way too respectful of a person. And because there'd be zero way to distinguish from a "no, but do it anyways", and a "no". ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: LDR: How do I make things less awkward in person |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2019, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 373
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| So, I met this girl online, and she's completely mind-blowing. She understands me completely. I could go on and on and on about her. We met in person for the first time last Friday. And it was awkward . I was expecting awkward, but it was way worse than I expected. She recognized it was way worse th... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: I'm out of options |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2019, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 511
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| I've struggled with anxiety my entire life and always struggle when a friend is upset with me, but I'm at a new low. I've been getting really depressed lately and can barely function, and that was before we started fighting. As soon as my best friend moved to another place, she immediately threw me ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something for the lonely hearts |
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Posted: 16 Jan 2019, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 632
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CubsBullsBears wrote: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
I found this video that I think could be very helpful for people who are frusturated that they can't find a relationship. You are not alone.
Well played lol |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you date someone who was openly bisexual? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 16 Jan 2019, 10:51 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 1,844
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| Yes, I've done it before. As long as they're into you, why worry? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does anyone else struggle with this? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2019, 10:57 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,415
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| He was a couple of years older and had moved from South Africa. I'd have been too shy to say anything! Just adored him from afar lol. I met him at a friends party when I was 17 though. He liked music and was the first person that told me about B52's and U2 who had just released their first album 'B... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does anyone else struggle with this? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2019, 4:13 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,415
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| Different, but, maybe the same, so I'll share. We're known to be predisposed to having very intense crushes on people & experiencing an emotion called "limerence." lim·er·ence /ˈlimərəns/Submit nounPSYCHOLOGY the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically exp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does anyone else struggle with this? |
| The Geek Overlord |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2019, 4:10 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,415
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| So, I've had two ex girlfriends over the years (both on the spectrum, and both LRDs, although I spent significant time in person with both.) The second one was an extremely clean breakup, to the point where we're way closer now, and don't even think of each other as exes. The first was horrific. Sh... |
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