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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 4:28 pm 

Replies: 11
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From what I've seen on this forum, some Aspies have different modes that they go into. They may be entirely focused on their partner when they're with them but be entirely focused on other things when they are away from their partner. It's like they have a hard time switching gears. Some Aspies als...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 4:27 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 562
Il faut que vous compronez que il soit un homme (s'il soit autistique) qui a bien besoin du temps pour lui-même. Il me semble, certes, que il vous aime, quoique il n'en dit pas comme "connection", mais c'est seulement un chose linguistique. A propos de comminication, peut-être Il soit nec...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 12:59 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 562
Perhaps because he doesn't feel like he "has" to. Maybe because you are doing all the "interacting" for the both of you. Maybe this will work: don't initiate anything for a couple of days. If you do this, maybe he will miss YOU, and write to you. Maybe he will wonder why you hav...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 12:49 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 562
It can be confusing for Aspies on when it is appropriate to initiate in a relationship. Especially since if they can't pick up the body language clues typically used by normal people. It is like waving signs in front of a blind man. Even blinking lights may not help. But I am initiating. why doesn'...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 12:48 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 562
I do feel an intellectual connection, we share several values. I Don't know that we have many interests in common. we love books, music and movies. We Don't know each other that well yet. It is true that I feel this Relationship is mostly based on this instant connection we had and the fact that we ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: trying to understand him

chenille
 Post subject: trying to understand him
Posted: 06 Mar 2019, 11:52 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 562
Hello. I am an NT just started dating an aspie. It's fairly recent (about a month) When we met there was an instant connection, for him it is rare, and I guess in a way for me as well, but being an NT I have no problem talking to people and making friends. However I never felt that way about a guy, ...
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