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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: HALP! I need some perspective!! |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2020, 3:00 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 498
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| in the end i didn't have to let him down...we're trying this thing called communicating with each other. it's really difficult for him because he is neurotypical...he doesn't know how to articulate what he's feeling, so I have to pry and pry....but I finally got him to, and I understand him better. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: HALP! I need some perspective!! |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2020, 3:19 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 498
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| So here's the thing, guys. After I separated from my cozy little ferret domicile and ex boyfriend, I felt unbearably lonely. I actually was so desperate, that I met up with someone from CRAIGSLIST!! He wanted to buy my shoes that I was selling, and he didn't have a foot fetish...he just wanted to tr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I don't want anyone to touch me ever again |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2020, 3:08 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 414
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| So here's the thing, guys. After I separated from my cozy little ferret domicile and ex boyfriend, I felt unbearably lonely. I actually was so desperate, that I met up with someone from CRAIGSLIST!! He wanted to buy my shoes that I was selling, and he didn't have a foot fetish...he just wanted to tr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Self-diagnosis |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2020, 5:27 am
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Replies: 117
Views: 4,123
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| I have autism, indefinitely, but no one sees that. They just see the borderline personality. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is saying "someone is autistic" offensive? |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2020, 3:47 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 7,740
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Once upon a time it was. But that was before I realized that being autistic is fantastic! Which is why I always say, with a big cringy smile on my face, "I'm not autistic. I'm autASTIC!"
But for real, anyone using that as a dis this day and age is a serious aspie, so f**k you! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The bright side of autism + coronavirus ;) |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2020, 4:54 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 744
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| i have a hearty immune system, and it most likely because I'm autistic, as i like to get into stuff. I like to touch things that others wouldn't dare touch. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Lonliness is killing me inside |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2020, 4:40 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 635
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| Perhaps you should take a class in something that you enjoy doing |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Of House Guests and Fish |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2020, 4:14 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 296
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| I have to start off by saying that I feel incredibly bad about writing this, as it is about my best friend in the whole wide world who I wouldn't give up for anything forever and always. But here is my dilemma: My best friend - who I am extremely lucky to have, by the way, as I went many a years wit... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Slaves of the Yuppies! |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2020, 5:51 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,233
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Slaves of the Yuppies! |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2020, 12:40 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,233
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| "Slaves of the Yuppies" mighty quite sounds like a B-movie horror film, doesn't it? But I'm actually trying to get somewhere with this. I feel, as someone with ASD in the food-service industry, that I am nothing more than but a slave to the corporate yuppies that run this cruel, selfish, h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it normal for aspies to get confused by what people say? |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2019, 3:23 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 480
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| ^^ Jeez, that brings up a memory. I worked as a masseur quite successfully on the west coast of North America before moving inland where people don't even know how to hug. I'd had a really tough year, and decided to treat myself to a massage here. It was awful, and expensive as well. From all that ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it normal for aspies to get confused by what people say? |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2019, 2:28 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 480
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| It's healthy to treat yourself and indulge. Be kind to yourself, and you will want to be kind to others as well. Even if those others don't deserve an ounce of your respect or your time or your emotional energy. I have started practicing something where when I tell myself I'm evil and awful and fat ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Online relationships |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2019, 12:15 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 449
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| I am starting to think of him as a pest, and I feel like an ass just because he rambles on and on about himself and the voices in his heads, and he has told me that he has been diagnosed with schizophrenia as well. He tries to make our relationship real, when it's not, and it bothers me because then... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Online relationships |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2019, 5:52 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 449
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| i probably should have posted this in the relationships forum. BUT the reason I didn't is I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm just looking for platonic relationships. Am i cursed? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Online relationships |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2019, 5:49 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 449
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| I had to stop venturing out on this one online chat site because too many guys were "interested" in me. I'd actually met someone in person once, but he didn't even really like ME in the end, he just liked how i looked or maybe he liked how scandalous it seemed to be with someone from the i... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: My Ferrets |
| betty_ferret |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2019, 5:16 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 379
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| I love my ferrets. They're my children. I haven't seen them for 5 months. My energy is nonexistent at this point. The whole point of my life is ferrets. And now I don't have my family. I'm really really depressed and I need them and someone's trying to help me, but like....they're on the other side ... |
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